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WoM

Why

1. Know each other

2. Willing to help

3. Ability to help

The long-term maintenance of a relationship must be an exchange of value

Suggest

Why increase breadth

How to increase breadth

Who should I make friends with?

1. Exchange of ideas

2. Emotional communication

3. Physical contact

4. Joint activities

Why: Interpersonal relationship is the biggest factor affecting happiness

What is it: Something that does not meet the expectations of the other party

Solution (non-violent communication)

How to do it

Being able to deal with all kinds of people is a kind of scarce ability in itself, which acts as a bridge, such as Taobao, intermediaries, matchmakers, and translators. And people who blindly talk about [personal connections] but don’t know this point of view ultimately have neither connections nor ability. Our goal should be: I don't need to deliberately make contacts, I am the contacts.

Being able to deal with all kinds of people is a kind of scarce ability in itself, which acts as a bridge, such as Taobao, intermediaries, matchmakers, and translators. And people who blindly talk about [personal connections] but don’t know this point of view ultimately have neither connections nor ability. Our goal should be: I don't need to deliberately make contacts, I am the contacts.