If you want to do something that comes to mind, the story of "yes, but" will be staged, hesitating, hesitating, thinking about it, and finally wasting time. It will only increase anxiety and will not help. The solution is to overcome fear with action, and hesitation and hesitation encourage fear!

What many girls realized is: I don't have the ability to survive alone!

Don't rely too much on one person, otherwise, when he is gone, you feel that you have lost the whole world.

The sense of security is given by myself, not the outside world, the other party, or marriage.

If you trust yourself to recognize the way, you will work hard to find it yourself. Once you have dependence, you will not find the way.

God does not want you to succeed, but just lets you try.

1. Take a small risk

2. Stay away from the easy-to-obtain sense of security

3. Cherish life and stay away from fear

4. Fear safe

5. Make a success log and become a master

6. In the face of fear, bottom out and rebound

Doing everything conscientiously, conscientiously, and steadily, not only will the result make us happy, the process is also worthy of our enjoyment and memory.

Eating while eating, sleeping while sleeping, drinking water while drinking water, this is Zen.

What to do if it fails

What to do if you lose love

What is reading

Do you want to exercise every day without losing weight?

What if you are ridiculed

The wall of worry always separates you from happiness! ! !

Excellent people can always devote themselves to the present and enjoy the present.

The boring person is often not the incompetent, but the courageous.

Every day I ask myself if I am not interested or dare not to be interested

Once the heart sets limits on oneself, many actions after that will follow this execution.

The change in our mental model is too powerful.

When we read, we only extract the first and last letters, and our brain helps to lick out the other letters.

This is why when we memorize a word, we can easily recognize a word, but we may not be able to write it.

This is very similar to the pregnant woman effect. You will automatically replenish what you think about yourself and in your mind, what this world is like. The reason for this is because these are all you want to see.

"The Story of the Pig and the Driver"

The ‘mental mode’ is what we call the "thinking mode" or "mindset"

With the "lucky mode" installed in your heart, you will continue a virtuous circle, and you will increasingly believe that you are the lucky one

A story about running a mile in 4 minutes

Human physical fitness is limited, but this limit is far higher than we thought.

What really limits us is the invisible wall in our thinking.

Mental model is a set of internal brain programs

Mindset comes from mental model

Each mental model has its own limitations

There is no right or wrong mental model, only whether it is effective

Hard work will pay off

Do career planning

Gold will always shine?

If you encounter a job you love, just go all out

How to transcend our mental model

Diminishing marginal effect of money

In today's changing world, our greatest danger is not external pressure and competition, but our inner patterns, which determine what we see, what we feel, how we think, and who we ultimately become.

Stallone's pre-famous story

This story is worthy of reflection, adopt what you think is worth learning, and remove the dross.

Most of the contradictions and conflicts are because both parties are insisting on their own form, not the result. They hurt others under the banner of love and are also persevering. One of the three poisons in Buddhism, “fascination” refers to this obsession with form. Rather than the resulting behavior.

As long as you keep going, you will succeed.

About a person who prays that he can win the lottery, but never buys the lottery.

Do a career interview with a working person

Try a training related to the target occupation

Enter some professional career forums or blog groups

See company website

Find some career databases

There are three realms of love: I fall in love with many people at first sight, and the two are happy with some people, and then I grow old together.

Everyone is envious, but the authorities are extremely painful.

When you see others making money, you have to join the team to make money, but are you really ready?

For example, my sister spent tens of thousands of dollars in the family to open the duck neck shop, but in the end she closed the shop. She considered the difficulties she would face as much as possible beforehand. Maybe you will easily accept and face it later.

Targeted people navigate through difficulties, and targetless people avoid difficulties and drift.

Play a victim game:

What is the most difficult thing for you to let go of?

If you always walk to the dead end, maybe it is because you always stare at the dead end. Poor people must be hateful.

Play a master game:

Know how to empathize, try to attribute some responsibilities to your own shortcomings, let's see how you feel?

You can't control anyone or anything other than yourself. Only by changing yourself can you control yourself!

Don't suffer from lack and inequality, and don't suffer from poverty and anxiety. --Confucius

The college entrance examination is not a fair thing.

The pursuit of fairness just shows that the world is unfair!

The world is unfair. The longer you live, the higher you stand, and the clearer you will see, the more you will realize that the nature of the world is actually unfair.

Society is a big tree, with smiley faces when you look down, but ass when you look online.

Life is good, maybe there is only one shortcoming, that is not the life you really love.

We need to think about why some people’s ideas seemed ridiculous or even funny at the time, but time has proved them correct.

Comparing, jealousy, and desire are the source of our unhappiness. Reduce our desires. Don't want to be fulfilled in everything. That would be very tiring. We all understand the truth that the moon will make a loss and the water will overflow.

"You, you are better" there is no way, you really have your own life and world.

Pahom Complex

There are only two kinds of people in the world-one uses money for happiness, and the other uses happiness for money.

Conquer fear and anxiety with action, hesitation and hesitation will only encourage your fear.

Everything is difficult at the beginning, stick to it. . .

All valuable things are hard-won.

The rolling stone does not grow moss, and does not gather wealth when changing careers.

The decisions you make when you are excited are simply not enough to keep you going.

You are afraid that everything will not start perfectly, and you want to wait until there is perfection to start, so that you can't start.

"The story about Churchill's painting"-tell us if you don't have a good start, you might as well try a bad start. A bad start is better than nothing.

Should everything depends on the price

Feelings cannot be weighed on a scale

Happiness is not for talking

Personality is not measured

I want to ask questions about my life

Don't use your life to ignite the halo in the eyes of others

A warm plan for the cruel world