Writing a book / Creating a company /Impacting the Software Industry

Smart people can do this, and maybe even do it better, I believe that... but no one willbe able to do it just like I will. It may not be better, but it will be unique to what I canand will do, and it's impact therefore will be unique, that no one else can replicate.Even if not as good, still unique, and thus it's impact is only achievable by myself.

Didn't believe in it. Told my wife it. In it'slack of feeling real it felt meaningless.

I now understand the uniqueness of the love one can give to another, even if not permanent"love" still unique in that you are the only one that can give love in the way you will give it, even ifsubpar, it's unique to you and the other and that's your responsibility to give that.

I also internalize Frankl's message, that love can unlock the potentialof another, create the best version of the other, that may not even becontemplated by the other without that persons' love.

not a regret of Dexter, he's an amazing boy and I'm happy he's in my life

I knew I didn't want to continue the marriage. I knew I didn't want a second child with my wife. Iknew it. I was scared. I didn't know what to do. I pretended I was a good person by prioritizinghope and "trying" but I honestly honestly think then, while making the decision to stay and haveanother child, I recall thinking, if I were to do this again, I would make the choice not to do this...

I have many times regretted not leaving, being at conflict with what I believed in, what Istood for, what I told of others how I would behave if in a bad martial situation. It madeit harder and harder to leave and had bigger and bigger impacts.

I can look back with the perspective of growth and what was required forme and us to be happy, I don't dwell too much on it, but I also don't haveto be ignorant to that idea I could have made that decision earlier in life.

I became very lazy over the years, and I hated it, and I have situations andpeople to blame, that I do still blame, and I take myself to not be very lazyin general and yet I regret the many times in life in which I am lazy

How much could I have accomplished in lifeif I was less lazy?

I believe in SANGAF's points on how motivation comes after action, lessoften does action come after motivation. I know this, if I took responsibilityin that moment and took action, I would find motivation.

Utilizing the 5 Second Rule (Mel Robbins book) "5.4.3.2.1" I can takeresponsibility in each moment in time and make bigger choices with my day

Not for kids necessarily though I can find meaning inthat, I don't hold myself hostage to life because of them

I don't choose it and resist choosing life as a "defensive" or a counter to a negative.. Iwant it to be purposeful and productive, not simply preventing negative experiences

I have hope to achieve more with my life, to change more of life, tomake an impact more in life, with the future of my existence...

I tend to conclude motivation from honest thought of suicide.

founded and rooted in biological past and depth

By making them aware of what they can be and what they should become they make these realities come true

Mans depression over his wife who had died two years earlier

odds of surviving the camp is 1/28

(some other women )married a millionaire, had a lot of fun,but at 80, I don't have children and I'm not sure what all ofthat was for.. I'm a failure

(suicidal women) crippled child would have been sent toan institution, so I have a made a fuller life possible forhim, I have made a better human being out of my son

anxiety of sweating, causes one to sweat

Tried

got over the anxiety within a week

suicidal

tried

within 48 hours, freed of writers cramp

a washing compulsion

tried

"the neurotic that learns to laugh at himself, may be onthe way to self management, perhaps to cure"

though can have long lasting effects

duration of therapy is not related to lasting effects of the therapy

Politics

Religion

Deepest meaning is in the spiritual being

Alive or not

But hopelessness of our struggles should not take away from are meaning of those struggles

Behave not in talk but in action

The tasks in front of us have been laid out, asking us will we take the right action, in the right way

This means the meaning of life is different to everyone because everyone has different situations

Life is expecting of us

No one else can fill all these situations that are unique to him

It's his meaning to choose to behave the right way among all of these unique situations as no one else will be able to

This can be a father to a child, and author to books, or love from and for another

Includes suffering, dying, privation, and death

Too often we dreamed of these things and the dream would end

People who thought they couldn't suffer anymore I realize they can still continue to suffer