MindMap Gallery The Laws of Human Nature
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The Laws of Human Nature
Understanding human behavior and the underlying laws that govern it is essential for personal growth, effective communication, and building successful relationships. This mind map aims to explore the laws of human nature, their significance, key principles, and practical applications. By visually organizing this information, we can gain a comprehensive understanding of these laws and how they shape our interactions with others.
Edited at 2023-07-11 04:40:53
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Laws of Human Nature
1. The law of envy
2. The law of role playing
Meeting her parents
we rarely show the person we really are
We keep a mask
3. The law of compulsive behaviour
Character
Tip 1: people's behaviour
Tip 2: choose people by their character
Tip3 :Avoid toxic characters
Hyper-perfectionist (more concerned about being in control than results) Relentless rebel (don't like rules and authority, can't accept criticism) Personalizer (sensitive, take everything personally) Big talker: (Seem impressive, boasting about things they never done) pampered prince (behave childishly, make you feel bad for not giving what they want) Saviour (always be there for you, solving your problem, were just trying to buy and control you)
4. The law of covetousness
Desire to have what they don't get
friend got somoething what we don't
Tip 1: find out what you want
not because someone has it (fame)
Tip 2: Find enjoyment if your reality
Focus on the positive side, change only what need to be changed
Tip 3: Becoming an elusive object of desire
Become what they deisre
People will want it if they feel other people want it too
5. The Law of repression
not accepting Shadow
6. The law of narcissism
Couple story, movie ticket, elec bill, feeling guilty
Be empathetic
7. The law of irrationality
dominated by emotions
we always try to Avoid pain and find pleasure
never admit they are wrong
8. The law of shortsideness
sugar
weight
9. The law of defensiveness
drug dealer boy suspended
mom called they want that you fail, he studied hard
we beleive we have 3 quality
Stragtegy 1: never threaten these. Be empathetic and validate their feelings. Let them feel they're peruading you. Strategy 2: Be a good listener Strategy 3: inspire safety Strategy 4: Allay their insecurities: they want to be validated and have their opinion confirm in the realistic and kind way Strategy 5: Use people's resistence & stubbornness: drug dealer kid's mom
1. autonomous: we'll deny being influenced by others and rebel if someone is trying to persuade or change us
2. Intelligent: we believe we have our own intelligent
3. Good: believe that we're good people
10. The law of self sabotage
Paris trip
Lydia likes
Positive
Attitude 1: conviction to curiosity (openminded explorer)
Attitude 2: don't avoid adversities, control your responses, become stronger
Attitude 3: Don't be skeptical, (goodl people are naive) negativity is their mask to cover their fears
Attitude 4: Don't take things personally, most of the things people say is not about you but about themselves.
Attitude 5: don't limit yourself
your body and mind can do miracles
Marcus didn't like
negative and narrow attitude, afraid to loose control, expect the worse to happen
Subtopic
11. The law of grandiosity
Gets out of control
When it goes to ego
distorted version of reality
we think we're better than what people think of us
Tips
1. be honest with yourself
what is it you want and is it doable
2. instead of hopping project to project
focus on one reasonable project
one step at a time
3. search for other poeple's opinions about your idea
consider their openion
4. go a little above your current abilities
5. tame this energy and challenge yourself goal to goal
12. The law of gender rigidity
Egyptian
God split humans in half
masculine and faminine
rational thinks: man don't cry remove it from yourself to become more creative authentic & independent
Tip 1: forsee all the possible consiquences and ask yourself how you'll deal with them
Tip 2: Let go
Tip 3: Patience to establish long term goals
Tip 4: train your mind to filter the essential things for your goals and priorities
Tip 4: Accept pain
Increase pain torelant, embrace feelings
Tip 3: Increase reaction time
Removing yourself from situation and giving yourself sometime
Tip 2: Examine Reaction
observe your behaviour
Tip 1:
Accept you're irrational
Embrace your shadows
explore your shadow
show it in your art
Floating Topic
Tips 2: Focus on micro expressions, fake smiles etc
Tip 1: wear mask proudly
save yourself
you're feeling envy
remember what you saw is half reality, practiice joyfulness
Gossips
Never show off
Drive attention to someone else
The laws of human nature
13. The law of aimlessness
earned money but not happy
connect to higher purpose
or you'll feel lost
Find your higher purpose
Discover your calling in life (love so much that you'd even do it for free)
Embrace peopl'e negative opinions
absorb purposeful energy
connect with peopl'e having high purpose
create a list of goals
14. The law of conformity
1950 psychologist soloman's group experiment
select similar line
in the presense of group 75% chose wrong as the group
to fit in, we ignore our rational side
greene suggest we form a reality group. use the social positive force to create someting great together
Tips
1. focus on the idea not on the people, structure the group in same way
2. establish a group a positive mission
3. use mental energy to do the essential things. delegate people you trust
4. encourage communication and let ideas flow free
5. people are sensitive to leader's emotions. Bring confidence, tranquility, determination
15. The law of fickleness
people will turn their back as you mess up
strategies
1. authenticity
you should do you
2. attitude
being a leader is a huge responsibilty, not previledge
3. vision
bring everyone back to vision
4. tone
lead by example, work as hard as others
5. Taboo
give more than you take
or else insecurity
6.adaptability
to the new time
16. The law of aggression
beneath our mask we feel vulnerable
Tips
1. recognise your pattern
2. don't hold it
it'll blow up and hurt you
3. admit your ambition
use them to grow and improve
4. ignore your self doubt
be persistent
5. turn your aggression at the problem you need to solve but don't let it out on the prople involved
17. The law of generational myopia
we're products of our time
we should be aware of the power of generation
Five strategies
adapt your past to the spirit of your present
challenge your past
relive the childhood spirit
keep on adapting
subvert the spirit
find a soft way to deal with generation instead of fighting
keep on adapting
surround yourself with different generation people
18. The law of Death denial
deadline (we work hard)
30 years
8 years sleep
2 years friends etc
3 years travelling
2 years entertainment etc
15 YEARS FOR REALLY PRODUCTIVE
reality of death
use it as a motivation