EVALUATE THE AFTERMATH:Although I didn't stay up late andparty with my whole grade, I stillgot to hang out with two of mybest friends. We might evenhang out later.
DECIDE AND ACT: Because ofthe consequences of thissituation, I choose to stay at myhouse with my friend who hasagreed to staying the night. Thisway I can stay safe and still bewith my friends.
IDENTIFY YOUR VALUES: I wantto not get in trouble, but I alsodon't want to lose friends by notattending the party.
EXPLORE THE ALTERNATIVES:Ask someone if they just want tohang out separately, or talk it outwith your parents first for whyyou think it would be okay to go.
CONSIDER THE CONSIQUENCES:If I get caught, I will get groundedby my parents. If I'm forced todrink, I could be arrested orhungover at school the next day.This could also effect my activewellness, as staying out late couldeffect my sleep
DEFINE THE PROBLEM: myfriends are trying to get me tosneak out a party when I knowthat it's past my school nightcurfew.