MindMap Gallery Negotiation with Advantage-The winning secret of an ace negotiator
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"Advantage Negotiation" - The winning secrets of an ace negotiator
1. Advantage negotiation, win every step
Opening Negotiation Skills
Offer higher than expected conditions
The other party may directly agree to your conditions
Can give you some room for negotiation
It will increase the value of your product in the eyes of the other party
Can avoid deadlock in negotiations
It can make the other party feel like they won at the end of the negotiation.
Never accept the first offer
Never accept a first offer or counter-offer, as this will usually result in two immediate reactions: I could have done better (I will definitely pay attention next time), and something must have gone wrong.
Never prejudge how the other party will react to your offer, and don't be too surprised when the other party accepts your seemingly unreasonable request. You must be fully mentally prepared so that you will not relax due to unexpected events. alert
Learn to be surprised
After the other party makes an offer, be sure to act as if you are surprised. Remember, they do not expect you to accept their first offer; but if you are not surprised, the other party will think that you are entirely likely to accept their offer. condition
After you express some surprise, the other party will usually make some concessions. If you don't show surprise, the other person will usually get tougher
Assume the other person only believes what he sees unless you have other ways of influencing him
Even if you are not negotiating face-to-face with the other party, you can still make him feel your shock. For example, expressing surprise on the phone will often have the same effect.
Avoid confrontational negotiations
Never argue with the other party at the beginning of a negotiation, as this will only lead to confrontation
Use the "Sense, Feel, Discover" approach to turn the tide of confrontation
When the other party shows some hostile behavior, "perceive, feel, discover" can give you time to calm down and think further.
Refutation usually only reinforces the other party's position. The more you argue, the more vigorously the other party will defend their position.
Reluctant sellers and buyers
Be sure to appear reluctant when promoting your product
Beware of reluctant buyers
This method can minimize the other party’s negotiating space before the negotiation begins.
When you use this strategy, the other party will usually give up half of their negotiating space.
When someone uses this negotiation technique on you, be sure to make the other party make a commitment first, tell the other party that you will ask your superiors for instructions, and then use the white face-black face strategy to end the negotiation
pliers strategy
When the other party makes an offer or counter-offer, you can tell the other party, "You can definitely give me a better price."
If the other party uses the pliers strategy against you, you can use the anti-pliers strategy "What price do you want me to give?" This will force the other party to give a specific price.
Be sure to focus on the specific amount, never pay attention to the total amount of the transaction, and don't think in terms of percentages.
Every dollar you negotiate is extra money, but be sure to calculate the value of your time and figure out whether the benefits you negotiate are worth it.
There is no faster way to make money in the world than negotiating
Midfield Negotiation Skills
Dealing with opponents who have no decision-making power
Don’t let the other person know that you have the authority to make the final decision
Your higher authority must be a vague entity, not a specific person
Even if you are the boss of the company, you can tell the person that you need to seek advice from a certain department
Always put aside your ego when negotiating and never let the other party trick you into telling the truth.
Find a way to get the other person to admit that he has the final say. If that doesn't work, you can use 3 strategies to prevent the other person from appealing to a higher authority: Appeal to his ego and get the other person to promise that he will be there for his boss Actively recommend you in front of you and use the "it depends" strategy
If the other party forces you to make a final decision before you are ready, you might as well tell him that you have no choice but to abandon the deal. If the other party uses the method of upgrading to higher authority, you can also upgrade your own higher authority. Remember, every time you call a stop, you must lower the price to the original quotation level.
Diminishing service value
Actual items may increase in value, but services will decrease in value
Never expect your opponent to compensate you for helping you
Be sure to negotiate the price before starting work
Never compromise
Don’t fall into the misunderstanding that only compromising on price is fair.
When there is a price gap between the two parties, you don’t necessarily have to choose the middle price, because you usually have multiple opportunities to bargain.
Never offer to compromise on price, encourage the other party to offer it first
By asking the other party to offer a price compromise, you are actually encouraging the other party to compromise, and then you can pretend to be reluctant to accept the other party's terms, thereby making them feel like they are the winner of the negotiation.
Coping with impasse
The so-called deadlock - refers to the huge differences between the two parties on a certain issue, and this difference has seriously affected the progress of the negotiations.
Don’t confuse an impasse with a dead end. Dead ends rarely occur during negotiations, so when you think you’ve hit a dead end, you probably just have a dead end.
When you encounter an impasse, consider using the "suspension strategy" - let's put this issue aside and discuss other issues, okay?
First create opportunities for both parties by solving some small problems, but never focus the negotiation on one issue.
Coping with Difficulties
The so-called dilemma - refers to the fact that the two parties are still negotiating, but it seems that they can't make any progress
We must pay attention to the difference between a deadlock, a dilemma, and a dead end. When a negotiation is in trouble, both parties are trying to find a solution, but they just can't make progress.
When a negotiation gets stuck, you might as well try to make some adjustments, which will change the entire negotiation situation.
Common ways to deal with difficult situations
Adjust members of the negotiating team
Adjust the negotiation atmosphere
Remove someone from your negotiating team who annoys the other party
relieve tension
Discuss whether adjustments can be made on certain financial issues
Discuss how to share risks with the other party, especially those issues that the other party will be interested in
Try to change the atmosphere in the negotiation room
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As long as you take action, the situation will definitely change
Coping with dead ends
The so-called dead end - a group of two parties who have had huge differences during the negotiation process, so that both parties feel that there is no need to continue the negotiation.
When you hit a true dead end, the only way to solve the problem is to bring in a third party
Third parties often act as mediators or arbitrators in negotiations - mediators can only push the two parties to reach a solution, but arbitrators can force both parties to accept the award.
Never regard the introduction of a third party as a sign of incompetence. A third party can solve many problems that both parties cannot solve.
The third party should establish the image of a "neutral"
Don't be too persistent. Only when you learn to let go can you become a truly dominant negotiator. Otherwise, you may end up giving up something you could have gained
Be sure to ask for something in return
When the other party asks you to make some small concessions, remember to ask the other party to give you something in return.
Be careful to use the phrase: "If we could do this for you, what would you do for us?" Never change the wording or ask for anything specific in return, as that is likely to create tension between the two parties. a confrontational mood
Endgame Negotiation Strategy
White Face-Black Face Strategy
Whiteface-blackface is a very effective strategy when you want to create pressure on the other person but don’t want them to feel confrontational.
People use the white face-black face strategy more often than you think, so be careful whenever you face two negotiating opponents at the same time. This is a very effective negotiation strategy that can help you negotiate in a different situation. Successfully put pressure on the other party without causing any confrontational emotions
The best way to deal with the white face-black face strategy is to see through it. Since this strategy is well known to everyone, once the opponent finds out that their strategy has been seen through, they will usually choose to give up.
It doesn’t matter even if the other party knows that you are using the white face-black face strategy. Even if the other party sees through it, white face-black face is still a very powerful strategy. When your negotiating opponent also understands this strategy, the negotiation process will be worse. It becomes more interesting. It's like playing chess. The feeling of meeting an opponent is much more interesting than playing with an idiot.
cannibalization strategy
With good timing, you can get the other party to agree to something at the end of the negotiation that he initially refused. The cannibalization strategy works because once a person makes a decision, his or her brain continually reinforces that decision. At the beginning of the negotiation, he may have a strong resistance to all your suggestions, but once he decides to accept your suggestions, you can make more demands by cannibalizing them, such as asking the other party to improve their performance. Order amount, product upgrades, or providing more services, etc.;
The difference between a great salesman and a good salesman is this: great salesmen tend to get more at the end of the negotiation
When you find that the other party is using cannibalization tactics against you, you may wish to tell the other party in writing the prices of other services, and do not let the other party feel that you have the right to make the final decision.
When the other party is cannibalizing you, you can fight back in a way that makes the other party feel "this is not classy", but remember to remain polite.
To prevent the other party from making more demands after the negotiation is over, you can summarize all the details at the end of the negotiation and use various methods to make the other party feel that you won the negotiation.
How to Reduce the Range of Concessions
The way you give in may create a fixed expectation in the other person's mind.
Never make concessions of equal value, because once you do, the other party will keep making demands.
Never make a big concession at the last step, as it may make the other party feel hostile.
Never give up all your space at once just because the other party wants you to quote a "fixed price" or claims that you "don't like bargaining"
By gradually reducing the room for concessions, you can tell the other person that this is getting close to the limit of what you will accept.
Withdrawal conditions
A repossession strategy is like a gamble, so be sure to choose your target well when using this strategy. You can retract the price concessions you just made by revoking conditions such as delivery, installation, training, or payment dates.
To avoid direct confrontation with the customer, you might as well fabricate a vague higher authority to act as a bad actor and continue to pretend that you are on the customer's side.
Gladly accepted
If your opponent prides himself on his negotiating skills, his desire to win may make it difficult for you to reach an agreement.
Make some small concessions towards the end of the negotiation to make the other party feel good
Remember, the timing of a concession is more important than the size of the concession, so even if you only make a small concession, as long as you time it well, it can have a great effect
After the negotiation is over, no matter how poor you feel the other party's performance is, you must congratulate the other party.
2. Use strategies skillfully and stick to principles
unethical negotiation tactics
Entrapment - draw your attention away from the real focus of the negotiation; divert the other party's attention by making false claims; focus on the topic and politely and firmly refuse "entrapment";
Red Herring - When using the red herring strategy, the opponent will first make a request that is not very important, and then he will withdraw his request, but in return, he will ask you to make some really important concessions; when your opponent When you use the red herring strategy, you must be very careful. If you find that the other party is just creating an irrelevant condition out of thin air, you must not distract yourself, let alone let him use this matter to force you to do something you don't want to do. concession;
Cherry picking - a tactic often used by buyers against sellers;
Making mistakes on purpose is a very unethical negotiation tactic that should usually only be used against unethical opponents.
Presumption - When using the presumption strategy, one party to the negotiation will unilaterally assume that the other party may accept a certain condition. This strategy usually gives the party making the assumption a huge advantage; how to deal with this strategy? -As with all other unethical tactics, give the person a call and gently tell them that you hope they will be more polite and respectful to you in the future;
Escalation - When the other party asks for an upgrade, you can fight back in several ways - use a higher authority strategy to protect yourself; when the other party raises the price, you can also raise your demands;
Deliberately revealing false information - The most effective way to counter this tactic is to see through the information the other party is deliberately disclosing;
Negotiation Principles
Let the other party express their opinion first
Generally speaking, the less you know about the other party, the more you should let the other party make the first offer.
If the other party expresses its position first, you will have a certain advantage.
Their first offer may be higher than you expected
This allows you to get to know them better before engaging in substantive communication with them.
Can help you limit the price range of the other party
It's better to act stupid
For superior negotiators, smartness is stupidity, and stupidity is smartness; during the negotiation process, sometimes if you can pretend to know less than the other party, the final negotiation effect may be better. The more stupid you act, the more favorable the end result may be to you;
In most cases, people always like to help those who are inferior to themselves in intelligence or other aspects, so one advantage of playing dumb is that it can eliminate the competitive mentality in the other person's mind. How could you possibly attack someone who comes to you for advice? How could you possibly regard someone who is begging you as a competitor? When faced with this situation, most people will feel sympathy and take the initiative to help you;
The following behaviors will put you in a very disadvantageous position, which is a taboo in negotiations.
Always like to make decisions quickly without giving yourself time to think things through.
Always like to be arbitrary and do not seek other people's opinions and suggestions before making decisions
Don’t like to consult experts for opinions, always self-righteous
Unwilling to condescend to beg the other party for concessions
Unwilling to listen to boss’s opinions
Unwilling to record the negotiation process
What negotiators usually do
Ask the other party to give you enough time so that you can think through the risks of accepting the other party's suggestion and whether you still have the opportunity to make further requests.
Tell the other party that you need to seek input from a committee or board of directors so that you can delay making a decision
I hope that the other party will give you sufficient time to seek opinions from legal or technical experts.
Implore the other party to make greater concessions; use the white face-black face strategy to put pressure on the other party without creating any confrontational emotions
Buy yourself more time by pretending to review your negotiation notes
Be careful not to act stupid in your professional field
A prerequisite for win-win negotiations is that both parties must be able to understand each other and learn to consider issues from the other party's perspective. However, if one party is determined to kill the other party, it is impossible for both parties to achieve a win-win situation. Expert negotiators know that playing dumb can dispel the competitive mood in the other party's mind, thus opening the door to a win-win negotiation outcome.
Never let the other party draft the contract
Read the agreement every time
Breakdown price
Savvy merchants know that when a person does not have to take real money out of their own pocket, they usually spend more
When negotiating, you might as well try to break down the costs that the other party needs to bear to the lowest level. This will make the other party feel that the costs that they need to bear are not high, thereby increasing the chance of success in the transaction.
Examples of making money by breaking down numbers
Tell the other party your interest rate as a percentage, not a dollar amount
Emphasize the monthly payment for an item rather than the actual price
Emphasize price per brick, tile or square foot rather than total cost
Emphasize the incremental cost per person per hour rather than the annual cost to the entire company
Emphasis on monthly insurance expenses rather than total annual expenses
Describe the price of a piece of land in terms of the monthly payment
Written words are more trustworthy - people are more likely to trust what is written, which is why we place so much trust in presentations
Focus on current issues
Be sure to congratulate the other party
3. Solve problems and relieve stress
The art of negotiation to solve tough problems
the art of mediation
When negotiations encounter a dead end, the best way to solve the problem is to introduce a third party (mediator or arbitrator). The so-called dead end means that the negotiation has never been able to make progress, and both parties feel discouraged to the point that they feel that there is no point in continuing the negotiation. significance
Mediation and arbitration are fundamentally different and should not be confused. The mediator has no power to make a ruling or to judge who is right or wrong. The mediator’s main role is to try his best to help the negotiating parties reach a solution;
Mediation: low-cost, efficient, thorough (disputes resolved through mediation will not be appealed), professional (mediators often know the essence of the problem better than judges), confidential (can avoid damaging the relationship between the parties);
Qualified mediator: impartial and objective
The mediator must negotiate a consensus between the parties
Believe that the mediator is neutral
Trust that the mediator understands the subject matter of the negotiation
Believe that the mediator has similar mediation experience
I believe that the mediator will use an effective method to mediate
Contents of documents submitted by both parties during mediation
Where did the dispute between the two parties begin?
Problems we hope to solve
What impact did the dispute have on me?
What kind of solution do all parties hope to reach in the end?
Mediator's success
enables both parties to talk to each other again
Able to get both parties to agree to make concessions to each other
Allow both parties to vent their grievances in a controlled environment
Let the two protagonists refocus their attention on the problem at hand instead of relying on emotions.
Convince both parties that the mediator is capable of helping them resolve their issues and reach a settlement
Let both parties take into account their common interests and stop focusing on differences and conflicts
Let both parties come up with solutions they think are acceptable; let both parties re-establish trust;
The Art of Arbitration
The Art of Conflict Resolution
Learn to control the scene to prevent the situation from getting worse
To allow the negotiation partner to vent their emotions, you must learn to look at the problem from the other party’s perspective.
When the other person is angry, be sure to understand the reason. Generally speaking, acknowledging the hurt the other person has suffered will alleviate the other person's anger to a great extent.
You must express your position to the other party as soon as possible. Once you can quantify the problem, basically half of the problems you face will be solved.
Try to collect as much information as possible
Try your best to get the other party to change their initial position and remind the other party to focus on the common interests of both parties.
Only when both parties have made their intentions clear, you have gathered enough information, and have begun working to seek common interests for both parties, can you really start negotiating with the other party.
When negotiating, the most important idea for a negotiator is often not "What can I get the other party to give me?" but "How can I provide them with something that will not change my position but will be of value to them?"
Negotiation pressure points
time pressure
During the negotiation process, we can see that 80% of the concessions made by both parties were completed in the last 20% of the negotiation time.
All details must be raised at the beginning. All issues must be clarified before starting.
When conducting any negotiation, never tell the other party your deadline
The longer the other party invests in the negotiation, the easier it is for them to accept some of your views; good negotiators know that no matter how far the negotiation progresses, you should regard the time and money you have invested as a sunk cost. They should be ignored completely
When negotiating, be sure to take the time to study each step, learn to use the pressure of time to your advantage, and never rush into a deal.
information power
Information is power
Understand the other party - to be a good negotiator, you must be a good listener, you must learn to respect the other party's point of view, and you must know what your opponent is thinking;
Be bold and say you don’t know - to truly understand your opponent, you must first admit your ignorance; the first rule of information gathering is: never be overconfident, admit that you don’t know everything, and you know The answer to is probably wrong
Don’t be afraid to ask questions – the best way to get to know someone is to ask your questions directly; when negotiating with people, gathering information will not only help you become a better negotiator, but also help you in life. get everything you want;
Four common tricks to collect information from opponents by asking questions
You can repeat the other person’s question
Ask the other person how they feel
Ask for the other person’s reaction
Ask the other person to repeat what you said
Let the other party enter your sphere of influence; do not collect information directly (peer communication, collecting information from opponents); the effects that can be achieved by asking clever questions - criticize the other party, trigger the other party's thinking, educate the other party, express your position, and let the other party make a decision Commitment and closer relationship between the two parties;
ready to leave at any time
Learn to leave at any time; once you tell yourself that you must carry the negotiation to the end, you miss the best time to leave the negotiation table, and you may lose the negotiation; no deal in this world is worth your time.” Fight for it at all costs.”
Keep your main goal in mind, your goal is not really to leave the table
Take it or leave it
Always remember that when you tell the other party that you are ready to stop negotiating, you must keep your tone gentle. Remember, your purpose is just to make the other party feel that you can stop negotiating at any time, not to actually stop negotiating.
Communicate your position carefully and skillfully - During negotiations, one of the best ways to remain firm without offending the other party is to use higher authority tactics
Deal Gently - When someone uses a take-it-or-leave-it strategy against you, there are usually three methods: Treat the other person with a similar attack. (Note: Be sure to think carefully before leaving the negotiation table. What kind of losses will your leaving cause to the other party? If they will not suffer any loss at all, your strategy may not achieve any effect at all); Climb on the other party's head; Use a more face-saving way. Change the other party’s stubborn stance;
Cut first and play later
Hot Potatoes – Beware of people who will blame their problems on you; don’t let others blame their problems on you
Ultimatums – Typically when you give an ultimatum, you must be prepared to act on it
4. Know yourself and the enemy, mutual benefit and win-win situation
Tips for Negotiating with Non-Americans
How Americans Negotiate
How to do business with Americans—Characteristics of Americans
Americans have very concise expression habits and often answer questions with one word.
Americans are very patriotic
There is no established class system in American society. The only criterion for distinction is money.
Americans have a strong religious complex
Americans have a positive pioneer mentality
Americans believe that time is money
American character: frank, direct, opinionated
Americans have the habit of tipping
The United States is one of the most diverse countries in the world
Americans like to be self-reliant - Americans are still a very indifferent nation. The winner is the king and the loser is the bandit.
American Negotiation Characteristics
Straightforward and fast – Americans typically make high demands at the outset
Preference for going it alone – Americans prefer to negotiate alone
Don’t play emotional games
Concerned about short-term gains
Not willing to learn foreign languages
can't stand silence
Negotiating Characteristics of Non-Americans
Decrypt the advantages of master negotiators
Personal characteristics of superior negotiators
Have the courage to seek out more information
Never make too many assumptions and expectations about your opponents
Dare to ask bolder questions, including those you think the other person will definitely not answer.
Ask the same question to different people and see if they respond the same way
During the negotiation process, you can also ask the same question multiple times to different people and compare the answers they give to see if they are consistent.
Be patient and engage in a protracted battle with your opponent - patience is a virtue shared by master negotiators
Have the courage to open your mouth to your rival Leo
The outcome around the negotiating table depends largely on one's ability to exaggerate one's demands
When you buy something, you can make your offer very low, at least lower than what you are willing to pay. And if you are a seller, you should raise the price very high, at least higher than what you can accept.
Be honest and let both parties reach a win-win solution
Good negotiators need integrity
Even when you have the upper hand, you should try to make some concessions that benefit the other party without harming your own interests.
to be a good listener
Only a good listener can be called a true negotiator, because only a good listener can discover the real needs of the other party during the negotiation process.
How to be a good listener
Treat listening as an interactive process and improve your concentration
Lean forward and lower your head slightly to let the other person see that you are listening.
Ask questions, give feedback, think about what the other person said
Focus on the content rather than the style of your speech
record the conversation
Don’t interrupt at will, stay patient
The attitude of a superior negotiator
Be willing to accept uncertainty—advantage negotiators love the feeling of uncertainty.
Be competitive - the more you think of negotiation as a game, the more competitive you will become, the more competitive you will be, the braver you will be, and the braver you will be, the easier it will be. achieve the results you want
Don’t pursue likability – negotiation is essentially a process of mediating conflicts. Those who pursue being liked too much will hardly become true negotiators; for true negotiators, the most important thing is through constant negotiation to find a solution acceptable to both parties
The beliefs of superior negotiators
Negotiation is always a two-way process - during the negotiation process, the other party is under as much pressure as you are
Negotiation is a structured process
Rejection is just the beginning of the negotiation - a good negotiator never takes "no" as a signal of rejection - it just expresses his position.
5. Negotiation master, advantage secrets
Develop strength over your opponents
legal force
The role of titles: Demonstrate experience and increase credibility - titles can indeed influence people, but when negotiating, don’t be intimidated by titles.
How to establish your own legal power - When negotiating with people, if possible, you must try to invite the other party to your company or your jurisdiction. If you want to take the other party to a certain place, you must use your car, that way you have more control. If you take someone to eat, try to go to a restaurant of your choice rather than one they usually frequent.
Legitimacy is the first element of personal power - as long as there is a title, a clear market positioning, or a standard process, anyone can have a certain amount of legitimacy; being impartial and law-abiding is also a kind of legitimacy; tradition It is also a kind of legal force; a fixed process is also a kind of legal force.
Rewarding power
Believe that you are the best - if you are selling a certain product or service, you must firmly believe that you are the best in this industry, and you must add value to your product or service; if you are doing sales, you may as well Come up with 3 reasons why customers should choose you over your competitors;
Build self-confidence and avoid control by others
compulsion
Awe - If you are willing to stick to your principles, especially when you may suffer financial losses because of it, you can gain the trust of others and they will like your approach very much; when dealing with problems, You must be careful not to shoot yourself in the foot, or to establish principles and then destroy them yourself; awe is the most powerful of all influences. As long as you can convince others that you have your own set of principles for doing things, And you never deviate from your principles, you will have a strong influence on the people around you
Appealing power - refers to the ability to capture the imagination of others and inspire support and loyalty from others
Professionalism
situational power
Information Power - Sharing information creates an emotional bond between people; keeping information confidential creates a deterrent
Comprehensive strength
The combination of awe, appeal, and professionalism can often easily control the entire negotiation process.
The combination of legitimate power (the power of the title), reward power (the power to reward others), awe (the principle of perseverance: no matter what happens, will not violate these principles), and appeal, no matter what purpose you want to achieve, Can be invincible and invincible
Crazy force
other forms of power
Create a driving force for superior negotiation
competition driven
Solve the driver
Personally driven
organization driven
Attitude driven
win-win negotiation
Don’t focus the negotiation on one issue
People all want different things (never assume they have exactly the same goals as you)
Don’t be too greedy (the last dollar on the negotiating table is very expensive)
After the negotiation is over, you might as well return some benefits to the other party to make the other party feel like they have won.
How to make the other party feel like they won the negotiation
Don’t immediately accept the other party’s first offer
Make an offer higher than you expected
When the other party makes an offer, be sure to show hesitation
avoid confrontation
Pretend to be a reluctant buyer and a reluctant seller
Use the pliers strategy
Use higher authority and white face-black face tactics
Never compromise on an offer from both parties
Once a stalemate occurs, you might as well put the controversy aside
After you have done something for the other party, be sure to ask the other party to give you a certain review
When making concessions, the magnitude of the concession must be smaller and smaller
Try to be considerate of the other person and make it easier for them to accept your terms.