1. When asking someone to do something, promise some benefits in advance or write the benefits in words, such as "I will thank you very much afterward, and let's go have a meal together after we finish."
2. There are no permanent friends or permanent enemies in the world, only permanent interests. The most basic motivation for interpersonal communication is to obtain material or spiritual satisfaction from the other person. Reciprocal friendship is long-lasting. Asking someone to do a favor once or twice can enhance interpersonal interaction, but it must be reciprocated many times, and at the same time, you must improve your own capital. .
3. When you get benefits in the group, remember to share them with everyone. If the distribution of benefits cannot be absolutely fair, then it must be relatively fair: the elderly or women are given priority.
4. Become a villain first and then a gentleman. When working with others, discuss the distribution of benefits first. For a gentleman, this will not increase his responsibilities. For a villain, this can help you avoid risks.