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Cultural Neurosis 2
This is a mind map about cultural neurosis 2, including the pathological need for love, The pursuit of power, fame, wealth, etc.
Edited at 2024-01-15 20:28:32
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Neurosis and pathological needs
pathological need for love
Unable to love, pathological love, no steadfastness and reliability
Indifference to others: 1. Inability to consider others, 2. Basic hostility, indifference & jealousy
Shallow, short-lived symbolic love reduces anxiety
doubt about true love
Inspire fear of dependence on others and loss of autonomy
love needs
feel needed
Conditions of pathological needs of love
Anxiety, feeling unlovable, inability to believe in love, hostility
compulsive
Obtaining love is the basic need to maintain life (hungry is not selective)
Unable to be alone: uneasy/fearful, needing companionship
Security yes, happiness no
Needs focus on the same sex: homosexuality/sexual aversion/frigidity
Pay the price: Submissive attitude, emotional dependence
Emotional Dependence: Resentment-Fear-Resistance
greedy
Anxiety bursts into greed
Oral period
Greed is considered sexual desire
Greed is restricted by anxiety. Greed disappears when you gain a sense of security. Greed becomes stronger when you lose your sense of security.
Greedy people do not believe in their own power to create things and satisfy their needs from external materials
patient type
Desire for love, insatiable
Special manifestations: Jealousy (feeling anxious all day long) & demanding unconditional love & only receiving but not giving & expecting the other person to sacrifice
Longing for love but frustrated and avoiding everyone, alternating need for love and general greed
Doubt love, only general greed
Courtship is neglected
One's own dissatisfaction is regarded as an insult to the other party
irritation-frustration
Anxiety - excessive courtship - unavailability - feelings of rejection - hostility - repressed hostility - generalized anger - anxiety - need for security
Courtship methods: bribery, begging for mercy, pursuit of justice (self-sacrifice tendency), threats and intimidation (hostility gradually intensifies)
sexual desire
Love between individuals is a product of cultural development
Overcompensation: security-dependence-resentment-jealousy possessiveness-praise idealization
pathological courtship
Obsessive-compulsive reactions express sexual color: repeated changes of sexual partners/ambiguity/inhibition.
Normal perception of sexual arousal: Compliance to sexual partner due to greed
Sex is the only way to communicate, and the motive is to subdue the other person
Sex is a way to calm down, like eating, drinking, and sleeping
The pursuit of power, fame, and wealth
that power
The difference between normal and pathological
Normal: derived from strength, ability, spiritual maturity, wisdom
Pathological: stemming from anxiety, hatred, inferiority complex, weakness
Protection means: against the feeling of insecurity and helplessness, the illusion that power despises the weak
pursuit of means
Eager to control others and unable to make mistakes
Desire to do whatever one wants
Never give in, afraid to give in to others
venting of hostility
Pretending to be socially valuable/humanistic
Unable to get along with others as equals
Either dominate others or rely on others
Sense of humiliation - Desire to humiliate others - Fear of retaliation - Greater sensitivity to humiliation - Greater desire to humiliate others
Sensitivity to shame leads to inhibition: considerate, gentle and talkative
Hidden under the tendency to worship others
fame
Gaining attention, respect, and affection, self-esteem based on the admiration of others = narcissist/rebuilding crushed self-esteem
wealth
Fear of poverty/possessiveness towards others
Hostility: desire to exploit others
Emotionally exploiting children
Feels that services are overpriced and resents the service provider
Believe that partner should provide orgasm
pathological competition
normal difference
Always comparing with others
Desire to be unique and incomparable
Hostility in ambition, destructive desire to thwart others, difficulty in having positive ideas and constructive decisions
Sex: Desire to humiliate/feel humiliated
Cover up the urge to humiliate others
worship
Suspicion - Resignation
exacerbating homosexual tendencies
escape competition
From anxiety: fear
The dilemma of pursuing self-exaltation-desiring to be loved-conflicting dilemmas with no solution
Solution 1 Rationalizing Resentment
Deep-rooted self-righteousness - a defense that urgently needs to be addressed
Solution 2: Curb ambitions
Fear of things no, fear of the inhibitory effect of fear yes
Way
avoid attracting attention
Personality Avoidance Tendency: Not taking risks
Pretend to increase target distance
Strategic underestimation//The most common sin of our time is inferiority//Limiting ambition
The aspect of self-deprecation is the desire to surpass others.
Established an absurd concept of one's own value & importance
Anxiety-hostility-impaired self-esteem-pursuit of power, etc.-increased hostility anxiety-escape from competition/self-deprecation-realistic failure-inflated sense of superiority/jealousy-spread of delusions-increased sensitivity-hostility anxiety