1. The central government attaches great importance to

2. The social development situation is compelling (the development of mobile phones, the Internet, etc.)

3. Youth problems are becoming increasingly serious

4. The role of family becomes prominent

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The parent-child relationship is the fundamental force for individual development and plays an important role in children's future personality shaping and social adaptation.

A good parent-child relationship is the source of children's self-development. Children naturally long to be seen by their parentsbr

Parents are the original source for children to have a sense of security, feel love, and be able to love others.

1. Let the children feel that they can do nothing

2. Often use people who are “better” than him to stimulate him

3. Parents shape themselves into a volatile image of the family

4. When talking to your children, you must never speak in a friendly tone. You must use a commanding tone.

5. You decide everything about your child, but you don’t give him any freedom. You have to pay close attention to his whereabouts.

6. Learn how to express anger

7. Being ugly after having a baby in public

When I was a kid, I realized that what I said was not important.

Parents don’t know how to control their emotions and use their children as an outlet to vent.

They always think that they understand their children and that their own ideas are consistent with their children’s ideas.

Not giving children a chance to express or trying to understand

Lack of boundary awareness, treating children as accessories, and not respecting their children’s autonomy in personal life

Force children to submit to their will through moral kidnapping

Go up and down, belittle the child's personality and abilities if they disagree with you

The value sheet believes that the perceptual experience derived from one's own experience is the truth of life and has a negative attitude towards those who do not understand it.

Pays attention to parental authority, ignores educational methods, and likes to talk about big principles.

Not knowing how to manage emotions and venting negative emotions on children

Highly vain, treating children as tools for comparison

Controlling and demanding opinions on any trivial matters

Treat others harshly and fail to tolerate children's faults properly

1. Social environment

2. Give full play to the functions of parents

3. Highly practical

1. Layout (providing children with a directional thing)

2. Family learning atmosphere

3. Parent-child relationship and communication

4. Cultivation of abilities

Fu: Where do we spend our time? That's where our love lies. We are willing to devote time and energy to the healthy and happy growth of our children.

Xin: Believe, although our children have many problems now, we still have to believe. Children can change, but I haven't found a way yet.

Let go: let go, let go of some useless beliefs and prejudices about children and family education, and humbly learn scientific parenting concepts

anxious mother

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The first biggest misunderstanding is, don’t let your children lose at the starting line. This is a huge pit dug by businesses. Don't force your children to attend various interest classes.

Mindfulness: Life is neither a sprint nor a marathon, nor is it Any competitive sports event is the realization of self-worth.

The second biggest misunderstanding is that my child is very obedient now and I don’t need to study. Don't force the older children to give way to their younger siblings, and don't let the older children feel frustrated. Cultivation focuses on psychological nutrition.

Mindfulness: No matter what the child’s current situation is, parents need to learn family education. Once a child has a problem, it is a big problem, and the right way is to take precautions.

The third biggest misunderstanding is that educating children is a matter for school. Educating children is innate and does not require learning. Every parent should assume the responsibility of educating their children.

Mindfulness: The family is the first educational position for children, and parents are their children’s first teachers. When raising children, educate yourself first!

The fourth biggest misunderstanding is that information is so advanced now that I can’t read all the parenting articles. I don’t need to study!

Mindfulness: Parents must go through systematic study to become qualified parents.

Actively learn family education knowledge and become qualified parents

Guide family members, especially loved ones, to actively participate in parenting learning and maintain a unified ideological front on parenting.

Spend more time with your children and listen more to their needs and ideas.

stocking mode Result: Without a good parent-child relationship, children will not receive high-quality companionship.

Beating and scolding education Result: Beating and scolding causes cold violence to children and damages them for life.

praise education Results: The character and learning behind children’s appreciation awaken internal and external awakening

unconditional parenting Result: Respect the child's growth pattern, meet the child's physical and psychological needs at different stages of life, and let the child become the person he wants to be!