Beauty is always collapsing. To maintain the status quo requires effort, and the desire to improve requires more efforts.

Human nature does not like to work hard. Everyone hopes that being lazy will lead to good results. This is the case for me and the same for my children.

Human nature is to yearn for things that make people feel good. At the bottom level, it is because I am good, so I can enjoy this beautiful feeling.

Accept that my child will want to goof off at some point, no matter how closely I watch

Accept that my child also wants to get good grades and receive praise, hugs, and kisses from his parents, no matter how indifferent or resistant he appears

I am the person who has the greatest influence on him in the world. Am I going to make him feel stupid, stupid, and hopeless?

Children’s mirror neurons have been observing and imitating our words and deeds, gradually penetrating into their subconscious minds

Parents love their children and have far-reaching plans. Is it a far-reaching consideration to damage the parent-child relationship for the sake of academic performance?

Clear old accounts, don’t compete with your children’s attitudes, and don’t accumulate anger.

My child has put in a lot of effort and seeing his effort objectively

Even if it seems insignificant, deserved, or simply not enough in my eyes, it is still his contribution.

The child I worked so hard to give birth to is also learning how to deal with the world in an immature way. Maybe the method is not good enough, but that is where I, as a parent, can help him!

Place the desk in a fixed location and try not to face the window

Don't overcrowd your desk with items. It's best to reduce it to only the items needed to complete this task.

Don’t listen to music and do homework at the same time

husband and wife relationship

Not disturbing is the best gentleness

Plan first

Review again

Then do the questions

Correct again

Final summary

Before doing homework, I agreed to solve the problem by myself first. If I can't solve the problem by looking up books or information, I will go to my parents.

Don’t take the initiative to talk to him while doing homework

After you finish your homework, check it yourself and then check it with your parents.

Just say the topic, don't blame it

If you change something, touch your head, kiss it, or say good job, you are serious.

If you can, be his friend; if not, don't be his enemy

Give him the responsibility of learning

Return the responsibility of loving him to yourself

On the way out of school, listen to him first

Don't be a wise man

be a monkey

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Give up expectations for children that are not in line with their age and abilities

Talk about his interests, don’t ask about studies

Physical contact

verbal praise

family meeting

family trip