Gamify life-learning scenes

Open experimentation to support children’s interest options

Focus on the present, look into the distance, and let your children go further

Advantages to win, concentrate on advantages, use advantages to defeat opponents

Keep doing the right thing, keep doing the right thing

A sense of autonomy and control allows children to fly higher

Ownership

Let children have a safe childhood and simulate real life

Form a prototype → boldly test → obtain feedback → quickly correct → realize life design and workplace design → change destiny

Accept that children make mistakes, encourage them to correct their mistakes and learn from them

Three principles for children to make mistakes

Help children develop a growth mindset and gain lifelong benefits

Praise children's principles

Enter the action flywheel to bring about effective growth

The ability to transfer knowledge determines how smart a child is

Create a good reading environment for children as much as possible

Provide more interdisciplinary options

Use some small tools and games to exercise children's thinking ability

Creativity is born behind the why

Always ask why and embed questions into daily conversations

In-depth questioning

Encourage children to find and verify answers by themselves

What needs to be learned most is the habit of studying

Independent study plan planning

Real world secondary school,validation. Apply what you learn

Learn to forget, forget first, then structure, then retrieve and connect

Three important moments in the development of empathy

Savings Rule: Help others sincerely and save for your child’s “Winner Account”

The law of reciprocity: A good relationship is one in which neither party has to compromise.

The Law of Weakness: Real leaders are good at being led, hand over the baton

Awaken true leadership and be a parent who “accommodates imperfections”

Awaken self-control leadership and lead by example to win respect

Awaken empty cup leadership and use essence to further bring about lasting changes

Cultivate altruistic leadership and use your own behavior to drive more people to become better versions of themselves

Always have positive leadership and guide people with optimism

Establishing long-term values ​​is to find something that creates value and stick to it in the long term.

Establish a long-term outlook on life, a positive attitude and perspective, and everything you do is important (regardless of good or bad results)

Cultivate children using a long-term approach

How to draw a vision

Put important things into the time grid

A sense of security makes it easier for children to trust others and resist stress

Love is to give children equality and respect. Parents’ love for their children is unconditional and equal.

Love is the ability to see the true inner needs of children

Listen to children and encourage them to express their thoughts

Strong relationship resource system, directly affecting each other

Weak tie resource system breaks children’s information loneliness

Method: Trace back to the source and find the authority full of strong curiosity Not afraid of embarrassment Once you get the advice, implement it immediately

The first mentor, the person who guides the child's growth, is mostly a parent. It is best to have an adult other than a parent.

Second, the child’s seniors or role models

The third place is a person who is accomplished, experienced and wise.

The fourth one, the sage, usually refers to the famous person mentioned in the book, the book

No. 5, Practical Coach or Consultant

ICPS method: clarify the problem → understand your own and other people’s feelings → find more solutions → think about possible consequences

Don’t speak judgmental language to your children easily

Guide children to express their style clearly

Encourage children to come up with solutions

Help solve the hardest part together

Parents should have long-term values

Help children build their own spiritual core (the ability to create value)

Let children's abilities and resources have their own growth model

Embrace changes and face difficulties with your children

Give children the opportunity to grow independently

Encourage children to be brave and take responsibility

Help children develop positive core coping mechanisms