Different people have different ways of living. There is no need to repeat the same life as others.

As long as you study what you like, even if you don't succeed, it doesn't mean you will live a miserable life.

What matters is not academic qualifications, but what you learned

It doesn’t matter if you haven’t found a job yet, think about it clearly, and then invest without hesitation

Do what you love and feel a strong sense of happiness from within

Aim for happiness, not success.

Happiness is a sense of contribution

Before you find a job that values ​​the fruits of your labor, you must learn to respect and value the fruits of your labor and give yourself a sense of happiness.

If you want to become strong, you must first admit that you are weak

Distinguish between what you can do and what you cannot do, so that you can become stronger

Daily lessons that you can't do after trying: too many tasks, controlling diet, reading, exercising, working, etc. If you can't do it for the time being, admit it, then adjust again, start again, and try again.

The evaluation of others has nothing to do with your own value and essence = the evaluation of others cannot change your fundamental value

Your own value will not decrease due to the evaluation of others. You are just evaluated as "not needed by the company".

As long as you continue to work hard, you will always meet people who evaluate you fairly.

Even if the interview is rejected, even if the work performance is not up to standard, it has nothing to do with my fundamental value. I don't have to be responsible for others judging me as "unwanted", but I am responsible for my own discouragement, depression, and stagnant mental state.

You can't stop a cloud from coming and raining by your own strength. You can only continue to watch and wait until it floats away.

If you envision it in advance and decide it in advance, you will not be swallowed up by fear when it actually happens, but you will start taking action.

Emotions are like a cloud, you can only watch the storm happen, but you know you are not it.

Even if you still have some desire to make the world a better place, you must maintain a mentality that cannot despair. Don’t rationalize your inaction by saying, “This is the way the world is, and there’s nothing I can do about it.”

Don't take care of society before taking care of yourself. If the subject is too big, it will make people feel that nothing they do is useless.

The way we live can give others courage, and the way we live can bring strength to others.

Start with your own small things to avoid despair, bring strength to others, and encourage your own thinking and actions.

If you listen to someone else playing the piano, you can do it without moving your fingers, but if you play by yourself, the music will stop as soon as the movement stops. The same is true for life, only the part you have lived is life. We must create our own lives like playing the piano.

It is impossible not to feel uneasy if we think seriously about life, but that is why we must think

Never stand still, this is to witness what is happening now. Don't stop thinking, you must look at what is happening in front of you objectively.

Even if it's to protect yourself, don't stop thinking.

Even if you do the same thing every day, you can't feel that you are not making progress just because you are numb. My problem is not how to put pressure on myself to do more, but how to maintain confidence in a steadfast life, feel that I am great and amazing, and not be numb and remain aware.

Even if you are desperate, you still have to think about how to survive. Even if you feel hopeless for a time, this state can be restored. Once in despair, you can start over again

We cannot go back to the past. Only by accepting reality and objectively looking at the situation in front of people can we get out of despair.

From the moment I started thinking about what I could do next, I was able to step out of my state of despair.

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When you want to criticize others, your motives are impure. It is because you think you are superior to others and you are devaluing others.

Criteria for judging whether what you are doing is right:

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How to use what is given. There is no point in not using it.

Even owning a lot of something doesn't change a person's worth. Even if you suddenly become rich, it does not mean you have become a big shot.

Even if you make a lot of money, you will lose your wealth if you don't have the wisdom to manage your money. There is no point in wealth, talent, or wisdom if you don't learn how to use it.

What matters is not what you are given, but how you use what you are given.

Even if you leave or change jobs midway, it is not necessarily because you lack patience and backbone, but because you are full of determination.

People who think seriously about their own way of living sometimes enter a negative state.

If you can persist in thinking about things even in a negative state, you will be able to see that there is nothing you can do at the moment.

"It's not about living in a daze or carelessly, but living seriously. Because of this, you will fall into a negative state from time to time."

Distinguish between what you can do and what you cannot do. We can only do what we can, right? Even if you do just a little bit of what you can, your life will start to change. Even if you find out in the end that you still can't do it, it's a huge difference from doing nothing from the beginning.

Optimism does not mean to have a positive attitude towards anything, but to do what we can currently do.

Although I don’t know what will happen in the future, as long as you do what you can do now, the results may change later. In short, don't sit back and do nothing, but do what you can do at the moment.

Because you are serious about thinking and living, you may enter a negative state. Even if the situation is unclear, there are things you can do: distinguish between what you can do and what you can't do, and do what you can, with an optimistic attitude - even if you don't know what the future will be like, just do the things you do now, and then The results may change. In short, don't sit back and do what you can do at the moment. “How can a person accomplish great things if he can’t even do the things in front of him well?”

No one knows whether they can pass the exam. No matter how hard you try, as long as you meet someone who is better than you during the exam, you will still fail. Therefore, relying solely on your own strength is not enough. Still, there is something we can do – and that is learn. Although we don’t know what the result will be, we can only work hard.

Even if you become the person you long for, as long as you are no longer the original self, it is meaningless.

Don't compare yourself to others. You don't have to rush forward to catch up. Just move forward slowly and at your own pace. Even if you are not moving forward, as long as you are still moving forward, as long as you are not standing still. Of course, it’s okay to stop moving forward from time to time.

Don't be influenced by adults' values, you must think for yourself. You must have your own values.

Don’t study for success, study for happiness.

Just move forward at your own pace and never stand still. The original intention of all goals moving forward is to improve the original self, for the happiness of oneself and others. In this process, you decide your life and the values ​​you cherish.

Without expressing it in words, there is no way to convey it to the other party, so it is necessary for us to consciously say words such as "This is a big help" and "Thank you".

People who have a sense of contribution do not expect anything in return. This is self-reliance. For such people, the approval or disapproval of others is not an issue at all.

The sense of contribution is equal to the sense of happiness. The standard of justice in one thing is the happiness of oneself and the happiness of others (contribution to oneself and contribution to others). The sense of contribution only requires profound self-recognition and self-identification. Don't follow the ups and downs of external evaluations, don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself, ultimately focus on your own core (Dinghai Shenzhen).

Think about what you should do now for the future, then concentrate on doing what you should do, and live in this moment with concentration

Like a child who plays until exhaustion, enjoy the moment with all your strength

In the end, we may be rewarded, or we may not. The moment you finish something, it's over. Even if you are not thanked, you can still feel the sense of contribution, which is the best.

Don’t make demands of others, but focus on what you want.

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