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Master Parents: A mind map on how to develop children's self-esteem. In family education, children are the main body of learning. Parents cannot study for their children. It is easy to destroy a child. Seize key actions during the critical period of a child's growth.
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Master Parents·How to Develop Children’s Self-Esteem
The importance of family education
Children are the main subjects of learning, and parents cannot learn for their children.
It's easy to destroy a child
Seize key actions during the critical period of children’s growth
What is the most important thing in primary school?
Develop children's self-esteem
Will the child be happy in the future?
Don't be proud in good times, don't feel inferior in adversity.
Develop children's reading learning
Will the child be successful in the future?
Cultivate children's habits
what is self-esteem
compare people to cars
Self-esteem is the engine
Self-esteem is that I can do it
Self-esteem is a subjective feeling, a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Self-esteem is the courage to continue to act
Dare to try, embrace challenges, and don't be afraid of challenges.
Self-esteem is a growth mindset
Let the courage to continue to act become a norm
Cultivate children's offensive thinking from an early age
"Rich people think differently than you do"
create life
in order to win
focus on opportunities
Focus on results
Take action
Continuous learning and growth
self-mirror
Are you subconsciously powerful?
middle school stage
self-identity
transformed into ideals and beliefs
Too much self-esteem
In fact, it’s because of low self-esteem
glass heart
ideal
pattern
The importance of ideals in life
How self-esteem is formed
Autonomy (prerequisite)
Understand the boundaries of responsibilities of children and parents
Homework is a contract between teacher and child
Parents help their children shape learning for their own subconscious
Discuss problems with your children and give friendly advice.
The hardest thing to do is to tolerate the temporary lagging behind of your children
Develop children’s autonomy and learning ability
How can there be self-respect without autonomy?
Sense of achievement (core)
Continuously help children succeed
The first thing: Persistently improve literacy skills
Key: lots of high-quality reading
Continuous reading is intellectually stimulating
The second thing: Help children develop one or several specialties
have an advantage in a certain field
Elementary school and lower grades
Try to develop interests
Elementary school middle and high school
Choose the best and stick to your interests
The third thing: Encourage children to participate in more sports
Even professional training, boys mostly participate in confrontation sports
health, will
Important: Don’t use others to define your own growth, others are just a frame of reference. Be able to withstand both success and failure and be mentally healthy.
Motivation (the most important external factor))
The younger the person, the greater the influence of external evaluation.
primary school
parents, teachers
junior high school
classmate
Parents should continue to encourage and not judge or even punish.
Incentive is not praise or evaluation.
Children care about what their parents and teachers think of me
Motivation is an art that needs to be practiced
Three elements of motivation
focus on things
Not right for people
The child feels safe
What's going on?
Focus on progress
Don't compare with others
Children feel that life is controllable
Focus on the future
Looking at the present from the future
Children find failure and difficulty tolerable
Victory or defeat is a common occurrence in military affairs. We also have a responsibility to help you.
Don’t blame the child for focusing on the problem
Focus on progress and the future
Don’t focus on people, don’t praise children for their intelligence
The most difficult thing for parents to cultivate is faith and hope in their children
Children break through the moral bottom line
criticize or even punish
important things
praise
Like a birthday: a letter of commendation expresses hope
Make motivation the norm rather than evaluation
Effective Strategies for Building Self-Esteem in Children
Common mistakes parents make
model of parent-child relationship
Parents should change their children by changing themselves
Parents’ expectations are not translated into children’s self-expectations
wishful thinking
Parents’ anxiety when their children fail to meet expectations
Curse (child develops false self-perception)
Too stupid not to work hard
Smart but not hardworking
The life force is not used to solve problems, the intellect is asleep and pretends to be hard.
Parents need to practice
Facing your child’s failure
Accept and help children
Stay calm and separate your emotions from your actions.
effective strategy
correct expectations
Expectations based on child's happiness rather than success
Have a job you love and a sense of responsibility to work hard for it.
Have the ability to love and establish deep connections
Be kind, be kind, and help others when you can.
How parents’ expectations translate into children’s self-expectations
The common spiritual life of the family
Read together
Transfer of work and life experience
Discuss hot social issues
Discuss the lives of parents or children
Authoritative Parent: Children’s Life Coach
See problems as opportunities for growth
When times are good, you are cautious and walk on thin ice; when times are adverse, you are not afraid of difficulties and move forward courageously.
Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
Let problems promote children’s growth
Remove children from difficult situations and reshape habits. Help children defeat problems and solve problems
Help children solve problems and gain new life.
Put yourself to death and live again
Problems are also a resource
Shape values
Make high self-esteem a habit
My existence is a permanent magic to me, this is life. ——Tagore
Feeling insignificant is the norm
Strive towards possibilities
Failure in life is not failure again and again, but failure to dare to try.
We should be shining brightly
Continuous learning and continuous growth
Example is the best education
"Master Parents"
How to help children achieve academic success?
How to educate children when they fail?
What kind of family will make children happier?
Cultivate key
Personality development
core competencies
personality development