MindMap Gallery Nonviolent Communication Outline
Regarding the mind map of the outline of "Nonviolent Communication", "Giraffe Language" allows us to meet our true inner needs, such as letting go of existing thoughts and judgments, listening with understanding, and understanding the feelings and needs of others.
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Overview of the content of "Nonviolent Communication"
Causes of Violent Communication (Language Alienated from Life)
moral judgment
Compare
Shirk responsibility
Forcing someone to do something difficult
Four elements of nonviolent communication
observe
objective observation
Venting of subjective emotions
feel
express feelings correctly
Distinguish between feelings and thoughts
Build a vocabulary of feelings and express them correctly
subjective thoughts
Reaction to hearing disobedience
blame yourself
blame each other
Pay attention to your own feelings and needs
Understand the feelings and needs the other person wants to express
Three stages from emotional slave to master
Stage 1: Emotional Slave: Believing oneself to be responsible for other people’s feelings
Stage 2: Hateful: Refusal to consider other people’s feelings and needs
Stage 3: Emotional master: express yourself clearly while caring about others
need
Do you understand your needs?
Choose freely, celebrate, be consistent with your words, nourish your body, connect with each other...
ask
Express a request
Express your feelings truthfully and accurately
Make a clear request: tell the other person what we want him to do; what is the specific action requested?
Distinguish between requests and requirements
Request feedback
Confirm whether our request is consistent with other people’s understanding and whether the other party understands it
Understand other people's reactions
How the other person feels at this moment (the part we most easily ignore)
What is the other person thinking?
Does the other party accept our request?
Use of nonviolent communication
Listen with empathy
The definition of listening is to let go of existing thoughts and judgments, listen with understanding, and appreciate the feelings and needs of others.
listening methods
Understand the feelings and needs of others
Give feedback to others
repeat
When we can’t stay tuned to listen:
Understand your own feelings and needs
Make a loud request: Stop or change your approach
Change the environment
love yourself
self forgiveness
Don't do anything that isn't fun
Replace negative words like “I should” and “I have to” with “I choose” and be proactive rather than reactive!
Gain a deeper understanding of the motivations behind behavior
express anger and gratitude fully
Honor feelings of anger or gratitude
Analyze the reasons for this emotion: what kind of inner needs are/are not met?
How to express your emotions correctly
Regain your passion for life
listen to your inner voice
Resolve inner conflicts
Spiritual environmental protection
Make full use of nonviolent communication
Quick resource check on the four elements of nonviolent communication
Express oneself
observe
I saw or heard….
feel
I feel....
need
Because I need or value...
ask
Would you like to try...?
listen to each other
observe
You see or hear….
feel
you feel....
need
Because you need or value...
ask
Would you like to try...?
"Giraffe Language" allows us to meet our inner true needs