MindMap Gallery Soft skills (non-professional skills)
This is a mind map about soft abilities (non-professional skills). The main contents include: character, action ability, workplace ability, discernment, insight, and communication ability.
Edited at 2024-11-06 11:38:11루미 : 영적 각성의 10 차원. 당신이 자신을 찾는 것을 멈출 때, 당신은 당신이 찾고있는 것이 당신을 찾고 있기 때문에 우주 전체를 찾을 것입니다. 당신이 매일 인내하는 것은 당신의 영의 깊이의 문을 열 수 있습니다. 침묵 속에서 나는 비밀 영역으로 미끄러 져 내 주변의 마법을 관찰하기 위해 모든 것을 즐겼으며 어떤 소음도 만들지 않았습니다. 날개로 태어 났을 때 왜 기어 다니는 것을 좋아합니까? 영혼은 그 자체의 귀를 가지고 있으며 마음이 이해할 수없는 것들을들을 수 있습니다. 모든 것에 대한 답을 내면으로 찾으십시오. 우주의 모든 것이 당신 안에 있습니다. 연인들은 어딘가에서 만나지 않으며이 세상에는 이별이 없습니다. 상처는 빛이 당신의 마음에 들어가는 곳입니다.
만성 심부전은 심박수 속도의 문제가 아닙니다! 심근 수축 및 이완기 기능의 감소로 인해 심장 출력이 불충분하여 폐 순환에서 정체와 체계 순환의 혼잡을 유발합니다. 원인, 유도에서 보상 메커니즘에 이르기까지, 심부전의 병리 생리 학적 과정은 복잡하고 다양합니다. 부종을 제어하고, 심장의 전선 및 애프터로드를 줄이고, 심장 안락함 기능을 향상시키고, 기본 원인을 예방하고 치료함으로써, 우리는이 도전에 효과적으로 대응할 수 있습니다. 심부전의 메커니즘과 임상 증상을 이해하고 마스터 링 방지 및 치료 전략을 이해함으로써 우리는 심장 건강을 더 잘 보호 할 수 있습니다.
허혈-재관류 손상은 기관이나 조직이 혈액 공급을 회복시킨 후 세포 기능 및 대사 장애 및 구조적 손상이 악화 될 것이라는 현상입니다. 주요 메커니즘에는 증가 된 자유 라디칼 생성, 칼슘 과부하 및 미세 혈관 및 백혈구의 역할이 포함됩니다. 심장과 뇌는 흔한 손상 기관이며 심근 대사 및 초 구조적 변화, 심장 기능 감소 등으로 나타납니다. 예방 및 제어 조치에는 자유 라디칼 제거, 칼슘 과부하 감소, 신진 대사 개선 및 저 나트륨, 저온, 저압 등과 같은 재관류 조건을 제어하는 것이 포함됩니다. 이러한 메커니즘을 이해하면 효과적인 치료 옵션을 개발하고 허혈성 손상을 완화시키는 데 도움이 될 수 있습니다.
루미 : 영적 각성의 10 차원. 당신이 자신을 찾는 것을 멈출 때, 당신은 당신이 찾고있는 것이 당신을 찾고 있기 때문에 우주 전체를 찾을 것입니다. 당신이 매일 인내하는 것은 당신의 영의 깊이의 문을 열 수 있습니다. 침묵 속에서 나는 비밀 영역으로 미끄러 져 내 주변의 마법을 관찰하기 위해 모든 것을 즐겼으며 어떤 소음도 만들지 않았습니다. 날개로 태어 났을 때 왜 기어 다니는 것을 좋아합니까? 영혼은 그 자체의 귀를 가지고 있으며 마음이 이해할 수없는 것들을들을 수 있습니다. 모든 것에 대한 답을 내면으로 찾으십시오. 우주의 모든 것이 당신 안에 있습니다. 연인들은 어딘가에서 만나지 않으며이 세상에는 이별이 없습니다. 상처는 빛이 당신의 마음에 들어가는 곳입니다.
만성 심부전은 심박수 속도의 문제가 아닙니다! 심근 수축 및 이완기 기능의 감소로 인해 심장 출력이 불충분하여 폐 순환에서 정체와 체계 순환의 혼잡을 유발합니다. 원인, 유도에서 보상 메커니즘에 이르기까지, 심부전의 병리 생리 학적 과정은 복잡하고 다양합니다. 부종을 제어하고, 심장의 전선 및 애프터로드를 줄이고, 심장 안락함 기능을 향상시키고, 기본 원인을 예방하고 치료함으로써, 우리는이 도전에 효과적으로 대응할 수 있습니다. 심부전의 메커니즘과 임상 증상을 이해하고 마스터 링 방지 및 치료 전략을 이해함으로써 우리는 심장 건강을 더 잘 보호 할 수 있습니다.
허혈-재관류 손상은 기관이나 조직이 혈액 공급을 회복시킨 후 세포 기능 및 대사 장애 및 구조적 손상이 악화 될 것이라는 현상입니다. 주요 메커니즘에는 증가 된 자유 라디칼 생성, 칼슘 과부하 및 미세 혈관 및 백혈구의 역할이 포함됩니다. 심장과 뇌는 흔한 손상 기관이며 심근 대사 및 초 구조적 변화, 심장 기능 감소 등으로 나타납니다. 예방 및 제어 조치에는 자유 라디칼 제거, 칼슘 과부하 감소, 신진 대사 개선 및 저 나트륨, 저온, 저압 등과 같은 재관류 조건을 제어하는 것이 포함됩니다. 이러한 메커니즘을 이해하면 효과적인 치료 옵션을 개발하고 허혈성 손상을 완화시키는 데 도움이 될 수 있습니다.
Soft skills (non-professional skills)
Communication power
How much a person can accomplish depends, to a certain extent, on how many human resources he can mobilize, and this depends on his communication skills.
Identify people through behavioral trajectories
Identity tags - items that serve as identity markers
Compare grades and prices across unified brands
Objects as "emotion regulators"
When people are lonely, their souls will be comforted when they see their own emotional regulator.
Items that leave traces of behavior
Principles of making friends with the times
Consistency in three views will gradually replace blood ties, classmate friendships and neighborhood relationships and become an important factor in friendship.
U.S. college admissions require students to provide: the books, magazines and websites they usually read.
Economist and Nobel Prize winner Amartya Sen said that there are countless poor people who have been living with single, even distorted and reversed information for a long time. This may be the main reason why some people are very confident while being ignorant.
pick friends
Make your life better and both of you can gain something from this relationship
People who can understand information from multiple perspectives and channels, and see the whole picture of things through their own thinking
Usually through a lot of high-quality reading, a comprehensive knowledge system is established
Which is more important, ability or character?
When selecting people, character is better than ability
People with good character may not necessarily have poor abilities, but they are often more humble and don’t like to show off.
If you have a good character, you will still have the opportunity to grow and change even if your abilities are lacking. If you have a bad character, it is almost impossible to become a moral gentleman.
Reasons for investment failure
First, entrepreneurs have poor character
Second, policy changes
Third, the entrepreneur’s ability is not good enough
Stay away from people with bad character
Making judgments about character and ability requires discarding personal preferences and feelings, and adding costs
The first question: Among the twenty or thirty acquaintances and friends around you, who do you think has the best character?
The second question is, if you want to invest one-tenth of the money you earn in your lifetime to a friend to help him succeed, and after he succeeds, he will return one-tenth of the wealth he has earned to you, what will you do? Who to invest in
The most reliable person
Strong ability
Good character
The two are usually not the same person. When we do not invest in costs, our judgment seems to become worse and will be affected by our own preferences.
Learn to apologize
benefit
Admitting mistakes, apologizing and taking corresponding responsibility is a virtue in itself
The cheapest way to restore your reputation
You will be more cautious in doing things in the future and make fewer mistakes
It’s the best way to get yourself out of your inner shadow
For managers/teams, it is necessary to reunite the team spirit
a proper apology
sincere
timely
Prevent your thoughts from being influenced by others
Three techniques of brainwashers
Seize the opponent's weakness
Often people who are in great need of help and yet very helpless
Forced to create anxiety
Anxiety makes people fear, fear makes people suffer
Separate the weak from sane relatives and friends around them
Don't rely on people of unknown origin
By crushing the other party's self-esteem, making the other party give up their original ideas and accept the ideas instilled by the brainwasher
Workplace PUA
Two prerequisites for working overtime: individual voluntariness, reward and compensation
Prevention: Put aside emotional factors and make judgments based on facts
Victims of intimidation must "be consistent with others" and cannot have their own ideas
Isolate individual people to form a "partial majority", lead the rhythm, and form a navy army
stay away from purposeful messages
Stay away from unreliable information sources that force anxiety
For everything, information must be obtained from multiple channels and both positive and negative aspects.
Take the initiative to go out and obtain information, rather than relying solely on passive recommendation algorithms to obtain information.
The most attractive conversation piece
Personal knowledge and experience
Do your homework beforehand and organize yourself afterwards
What you read or hear from others
Unsuitable content: hot news, gossip, professional knowledge, novels
Suitable content: new knowledge, general knowledge and popular science knowledge
Content processed by one’s own mind
Insight
You have already seen things that others have seen, and you can also discover things that others cannot see. This is called having insight.
Eight dimensions of analyzing historical events
national and national identity
First of all, we must understand how a certain nation and country came about, and how people of various nationalities in the country identify with a country and political power.
Economy, Trade and Technology
Paying attention to social changes and development, especially the development of economy and science and technology, is far more important and has more practical significance than paying attention to wars or palace coups.
geography and environment
Much greater than the impact of an individual
Population movement, migration and settlement
politics and power
This is the most often emphasized, the main, and sometimes the only dimension in past history books
time and space
Put a certain period of history of a country into a broader perspective and examine it
Cultural differences and connections between regions within a country
social structure
Analyze the company by analogy: employee composition, technical characteristics/business model, local policies, business expansion trajectory, management methods, industry status, internal culture, company structure
How to think about choosing and taking the wrong ride
Go forward, go for it
Don't be discouraged, keep going
Just go with it, don't regret it
How to treat stupidity
knowing the truth, seeing the truth, but still believing lies
Self-righteous and unable to see one's own ignorance
Classification
temporary stupidity
Stupidity that is difficult or even immutable
Short-sighted, unable to see one's own shortcomings and mistakes, and not ashamed of them
Only a little clever, no great wisdom, but he thinks very highly of himself and is arrogant.
The kind of people you need to pay attention to at work
Shrewd but not smart, likes to teach others, does not update his or her knowledge, is stubborn, and is hostile to new things and the external environment
Which is easier, climbing Mount Everest or becoming a billionaire?
achieve goals
A single standard goal is easy to achieve, especially if it can be quantified
It is determined by multiple factors in all aspects, and there may not even be a unified measurement standard for every aspect, making it very difficult to achieve.
A misunderstanding that many people make is that they simply project multi-dimensional things into one or several dimensions, and use some indicators to measure things that should not be quantified.
There is a problem in exam-oriented education. It simplifies the complex matter of talent training and relies too much on quantitative indicators.
Over time, you will be too lazy to cultivate your true comprehensive ability, too lazy to do things that others have not done and that are difficult to measure with data.
Many people are unwilling to admit weaknesses that cannot be measured with data.
Relating to more dimensional factors and focusing on abilities that cannot be quantified
Only by facing reality can we achieve better development
Our world is concrete and tangible. If you want to understand the truth of this world, you must constantly touch it.
Before looking for a job, do more social research and understand the real society.
Brain or hands, which one is more important?
It is still very important to learn from experience, gain knowledge from experience, and see what others cannot see.
It is the experience of thousands of people. We must keep pace with the times in terms of learning methods.
Take action
What most lack is not the knowledge in books, but the ability to do it. They don’t even have the will to do it, they just wait for ready-made answers.
resolution
Today, when there is a lack of unified values and a serious overload of information, it is particularly important to distinguish between good and evil, right and wrong, right and wrong.
Distinguish between philosophical stories and useless essays
identification method
Use logic
Use language as a tool to justify actions
Wittgenstein: Language is the bridge between our thoughts and the real world
Good stories build bridges between ideas and the world
Useless chicken soup can only lead people to an environment of self-deception
See if it can face real challenges
Nietzsche: The best way to poison young people is to make them respect people who think like you, rather than respect people who disagree with you.
Go back to the real situation, back to action to test
The real truth can be explained clearly in straightforward words, no need to be mysterious.
Not all trendy theories work
There are two prerequisites for the establishment of the six degrees of separation theory.
Friendship relationships are symmetrical and transitive
Most friends in real life do not have these two attributes at the same time.
When asking for help, face is infinite and can never be used up.
In reality, people’s face is limited and conserved
Value investing: the reason why Buffett succeeds
He is excellent at judging the value of some companies, and has narrowed the scope of his research to a very small area, spending a lot of time on each research.
When investing, I did a lot of things that others couldn’t do.
For example, strict risk control and direct participation in the management of invested companies
slash youth
Based on "survivor bias"
Multiple identities are often a result
Many successful slashers actually changed careers because they were not allowed to do so.
Misplacement of the causes, phenomena and consequences of success
How to distinguish whether fashionable theories are used in reality
When theory and reality are inconsistent, it is usually the reality that is right and the theory that is wrong.
Don’t follow blindly, you should think theoretically before believing in any fashionable theory, especially if it is beneficial to you.
Be wary of coincidences
To see the inevitability behind the coincidence, or that a certain rule caused the coincidence
Tools for judging coincidence or necessity-probability theory
Be wary of "unanimity"
Making accurate judgments is difficult due to bias/prejudice
subjective
Living in an environment where people have highly similar opinions makes it easier to detect your own biases
Typical: preset views in questionnaires
objective
survivorship bias
Prejudice not only stems from our lack of knowledge or experience, and subjective tendencies, but more importantly, it often arises from the consistency between us and the people around us.
Maintain the ability to think independently, rationally and reflect on your own opinions
Isn't there a contradiction between "can't judge a book by its appearance" and "looks come from the heart"?
A person's appearance can actually reflect his or her spiritual tendencies and traits
Reciprocity comes from the heart, most likely not just because of the appearance or appearance, but the micro-expressions of the other person's speech.
By constantly calibrating your own judgment standards, you can better strike a balance between emotion and rational thinking.
workplace power
In the era of specialization, the way in which things are done and the attitude in which one works with others often determine how far a person can go on his career path.
Find the career that suits you with deep work
Newport "Deep Work"
Whether a person likes to do something depends largely on how well he can do it
Immersive working state can improve work efficiency, which may be 10 to 20 times
Four practice methods
Distinguish between shallow work and deep work, and arrange different times to do these two different tasks every day.
Such as reading emails - shallow level, writing emails - deep level
Measure the importance and scarcity of what you do or the skills you practice when doing deep work
unimportant
Generally, jobs whose results can be measured using KPIs are not scarce.
important
The creative part of the project
Specialties of professionals and technical experts
Take control of the entire project
Manager’s Specialties
Work with people you like
A bad environment and interpersonal relationships will occupy your attention and even affect your work, resulting in you never getting the opportunity to do in-depth work.
A good environment, surrounded by colleagues who can help you improve, can not only improve your cognitive level, but also constantly receive objective and pertinent feedback about your work.
Use electronic products as little as possible
What is higher than professionalism?
Dreams and beliefs need to meet three basic requirements
Have worked hard for the dream for a long time
You are not using other people’s resources to achieve your dreams, but you are dedicating everything you have to your dreams.
I gave up other opportunities for my dreams
What is the use of Sun Wukong's tight hoop?
The three connotations of tight hoop
Basic Code of Conduct and Ethics
Natural laws, the basic operating order in the universe
Beyond the individual, the power comes from the organization
The power of the organization limits itself
To a certain extent, the tight restrictions help Sun Wukong give up the greed, anger, ignorance, pride and doubt in his heart that are contrary to his Buddha nature, and gradually gain his own divinity.
How professors at top U.S. universities get promoted
There are three ranks on the tenure track: assistant professor, associate professor, and full professor.
On the premise that academic standards are up to standard, peer review and personal popularity are the most important factors in determining whether to be promoted or not.
In large companies and institutions with a long history, promotions also pay attention to the process and the opinions of colleagues.
It is difficult to get promoted based on the merit of one thing alone
High emotional intelligence is not just about being well-spoken
The essence is the ability to understand oneself and understand others
Observe people’s hearts and think from others’ perspective
The significance of empathy in emotional intelligence
Don’t be the “bringer of bad news” unnecessarily
High emotional intelligence should be reflected in actions
Need to pay attention: People with high emotional intelligence need to know how to focus on more critical things and not be easily distracted.
Whether you can become the final winner depends on your ability to withstand pressure
Mobility
A person's ability to achieve his goals ultimately depends on action. Knowing what to pay attention to and what to ignore is the key to improving your ability to act.
If you analyze it calmly, you will find that you don’t need to do most things, and you don’t even need to look in some directions.
Improving efficiency at a strategic level: picking out the gold or filtering out the sand
Efficiency of life = number of things completed in a lifetime × influence of things/lifespan
Do more influential things and less dispensable things
People who do great things pick gold, not filter sand
The goal is not to pursue the proportion of gold found, but to pursue the maximum number of golds picked out per unit of time.
No need to bet on that "what if"
The ability to do things is cultivated by completing little things.
Efficiency at least has a premise, which is to get things done, rather than aiming too high.
Make a choice after weighing it carefully
finish things, do them well
Keep upgrading and choosing bigger things
The same goes for doing things and making friends
Improving efficiency at a tactical level: Why focus makes a person
The key to improving efficiency is concentration, and the key to concentration is not to look around.
The more you worry about irrelevant things, the farther away you will be from your main task.
A person's time allocation determines the efficiency of achieving goals
Efficiency over a long time span is more meaningful
Example
In terms of investment: Focusing on work you are familiar with is the best way to make a fortune. Paying too much attention to the capital market is harmful and unhelpful.
When discussing problems, you need to converge your thinking and achieve some results as much as possible, which is a manifestation of concentration.
Things that are considered assets may be liabilities, such as things that are rarely used but require energy to maintain.
Truly efficient people finish their tasks early and have time to slow down and appreciate the surrounding scenery.
Improve efficiency, finish things in time, and look around when you have free time. This will not only prevent you from losing your way, but also ensure the balance between work and rest.
Key points to improve efficiency
Whether it's making friends or doing things, you don't have to be greedy for everything, just pick out some really worthwhile people and things.
There is no need to feel guilty about this selection process
The so-called efficiency is more important in a longer period of time, not in 30 minutes or 2 hours. The secret to improving efficiency is to spend more time on important things and don’t worry about things while doing them. Look left and right at those dispensable things
Wherever we look and who we are moved by, we become what kind of people we are.
The unimportant things in life
Cross things off your list of things you focus on or spend money on
The so-called living a free and unrestrained life is just to delete those unimportant things from our lives.
list
Shopping
Spending too much time choosing when shopping
As long as it works
Eating out
Gossip
social media
News
What others think of you
Principles that should be taken into account
Others have given me very formal suggestions and evaluations
If the review content involves personal preferences, don’t pay too much attention to it
Overthinking and always trying to be right
Worry about tomorrow
What do people spend their time on?
The difference in time management between people with better career development and ordinary people is actually about 2 hours a day.
If you use these 2 hours in a more effective and creative way, your life may change a lot.
Little things add up: spend 4 15 minutes a day doing 4 small things, and you will be completely different in 1 year from now.
learn a foreign language
keep a diary
Read 5 pages of book
Taking care of the garden, growing flowers and grass
chat with kids
Meditate or practice yoga
How to stop loss in time management
do subtraction
To finish everything that has been started and to ensure quality, the important thing is not to add, but to subtract and give up some things that you didn’t want to do.
"Departure": Whatever kind of life you want to live, keep the corresponding things and give up those things that have nothing to do with the life in your mind, because you don't actually need them.
The same goes for doing things, ask yourself what your goals are
Stop loss promptly
It is not enough to give up something, you must stop something you have started, or stop the loss in time.
Have plan B ready
Reserve time
"Insight": The last five minutes of anything you do are not your own. If you adhere to this principle, you will not rely on the last five minutes when doing things, and this will not cause chain delays.
Relative time perspective: Time is nothing but the sequence of events that occur one after another in a causal chain.
Basic requirements of time management: being able to stop in time those things that cannot be completed within the specified time
The worst time management method in the world is to always say "just 3 more minutes and it will be over soon." The result of this approach is that it is often delayed again and again, and ultimately messes up all kinds of things.
If you stop losing money on time management every three days, you need to reflect on why you always arrange things so badly, and at the same time, find ways to avoid getting yourself into such embarrassing situations.
Prepare plan B
Time is saved when preparing Plan B in advance becomes a habit in our lives
Reduce time fragmentation
Work status is interrupted by mobile phones, etc.
Think about that while doing this
How to master a new skill quickly
The first point, and the most important one, is to do preliminary research.
answer three questions
Do you really want to learn this kind of thing?
If you start without thinking and end up giving up halfway, it’s better not to start at all.
how do you want to learn
If you can find a teacher, you must find one. Don’t teach yourself, and don’t ask your friends to teach you just to save money.
How much does it cost to learn this skill?
time cost, economic cost
Point 2: When you encounter difficulties in studying, you must ask the teacher for help in time and don’t figure it out on your own.
After practicing for a period of time, you also need to ask the teacher for some suggestions and feedback.
Point 3: Break down the learning process of a complex skill into several relatively simple steps
Repeat unskilled steps
Point 4: After mastering basic skills, you should use them as soon as possible, use them at work or in actual scenarios, and then continuously improve your skills in actual combat.
Learn while using and improve while using. This is the most efficient method.
character
More important than ability is character, which is the cornerstone of success in life. Character is acquired and has no direct relationship with genes, origin, knowledge, or opportunities.
Humanity is a crooked tree
Only by paying attention to the cultivation of character can a person become a useful talent.
Misconceptions about character development
Bloodline theory, wealth and social status are related to character. Once a good character is cultivated, it can be maintained for a lifetime.
Review your own behavior at any time and strive to develop altruistic behaviors and thoughts
For most people, being able to be persistent, not vulgar, have a sense of justice and good personal cultivation is enough for character development.
Be persistent and not vulgar
External forces that help us develop character
friends and relatives
rules and traditions
Examples and models
Religion and Beliefs
Perseverance means indulging oneself in the dimension of time, while kitsch means indulging oneself in the dimension of space.
Two kinds of kitsch: appearance and heart
A person's character is developed on the premise of not catering to the trend and insisting on oneself.
Sense of justice (kindness, integrity, fairness)
Kindness is a kind of character developed by human beings, and it is also the character that benefits us the most.
Don’t equate kindness with concepts such as sacrifice and cowardice
Kindness does not mean sacrifice, nor does it mean having to pay beyond one's ability, nor does it mean being humble and making oneself unhappy.
Kindness does not mean cowardice. You don’t need to base your “goodness” on others on your “evilness” on yourself. Such kindness will not last long.
Kindness is both a will and a cognitive ability that needs to be cultivated and trained
Two elements of kindness
Empathy or empathy
Restrain people's evil thoughts and cultivate good habits, including the ability to understand others
Recognize the reciprocal benefits of kindness
Two qualities of kindness
Integrity can greatly reduce the cost of social operation and the cost of our lives
Justice is the foundation of a civilized society, including being without partiality and being able to make decisions and do things based on standards recognized by everyone.
Cultivation (gratitude, forgiveness, humility, self-control)
No matter what one's background is or what one's knowledge is, as long as one controls one's emotions and desires, is strict with oneself, does not show off, cares for others, is tolerant of others, is grateful to everyone who helps us, and is grateful to nature, he will be a cultivated person. man, a man of high character