Only when you have a goal can you have the possibility of success. Only when you live your life can you have energy and ambition, and feel the sense of accomplishment of growing and getting closer to your goal.

People who have no goals will do nothing all day long, are extremely bored, lazy and degenerate, cannot grow, and may even get worse and worse.

Goals should be set based on your actual situation, be practical and attainable, and should not be too lofty, causing yourself to be physically and mentally exhausted and lose your enthusiasm and self-confidence.

Focus on your own strengths

Acknowledge and make up for your own shortcomings, and use them as motivation to improve yourself, rather than as a reason to sink.

How much water a barrel can hold is not measured by the longest wooden board, but by the shortest wooden board. No matter how tall the long wooden board is, if the short wooden board is not high enough, it cannot hold water. If you want the barrel to hold more water, you must lengthen the shortest board.

When you encounter a problem, don’t act recklessly. Only by finding out the problem and solving it scientifically can you get twice the result with half the effort.

Things should be prioritized. Planning within the first five years is very important. Important things and things that you won’t have the chance to do later should be done in advance (for example, get married and have children at the right age, make money at any time, and it will be difficult if you miss out on marriage, love, etc. )

A: Something that must be done B: What should be done C: Do something within your ability D: Things that can be delegated or deleted

Get rid of unnecessary behaviors, find the simplest and most efficient way to solve problems, and simplify things

Do not delete indiscriminately. Delete items that should not be deleted. Keep the true while retaining the false and discard the rough and the essential.

Face your mistakes and learn from them as a stepping stone to success

Failure only means that you have not yet succeeded, gained experience, are willing to try, need to change your methods, need to continue working hard, have shortcomings, need more time, or are simply not suitable and need to change your goals.

Only when you grow tall enough can you be seen and noticed. You have to endure the experience of growing taller as a mushroom and accumulate experience.

Do everything that will help your mushroom grow taller: don't suffer in meaningless pessimism, hold on strong and push forward. For example, since you can’t change your job, you should try your best to find fun and a sense of accomplishment at work.

If you want others to believe that you value yourself, you must first make yourself believe that you value yourself and exude the magic and attraction of self-confidence.

Don’t set limits and deny yourself, don’t always magnify your shortcomings, keep learning and growing, and build and enhance your self-confidence.

Don’t die in confusion and numbness, stifling your potential and fighting spirit, thus missing and losing opportunities. You must have a sense of crisis, plan and prepare in advance, and cope with changes.

Bravely bear pressure and use suffering and difficulties to inspire more possibilities and potential

Don’t focus on form, spend your time on actual work and producing valuable results.

Don’t give others the chance to doubt yourself and fail to see what you have given.

You can be open-minded, but don’t evaluate yourself too low, set limits and indulge yourself, and then become negative and degenerate.

Be wary of arrogance and impetuosity, and do things well

Be open-minded, stay away from complaining, and reflect on yourself

Stop complaining and reflect on yourself

People tend to have preconceptions, and first impressions are really important

You should improve your conversation, dress and behavior.

Distance creates beauty, keep appropriate distance and boundaries

intimate distance, personal distance, social distance, public distance

Don’t project your thoughts onto others and think others think the same way.

Emotional projection: The more you look at someone you like, the more you like them, and vice versa. The more I loved you in the beginning, the more you hate me in the end.

Appropriate self-disclosure helps deepen intimacy. Excessive isolation makes people secretive. Excessive exposure will offend people

Self-disclosure means opening your heart to others and telling your private affairs and innermost thoughts.

Don’t wear colored glasses, break the cognitive bias caused by prejudice, and think that certain people and things must be how they are.

Update ideas, broaden horizons, tolerate and understand the diversity of people and things

Compare yourself to others, think in their shoes, and do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you.

How you treat others is how others will treat you. All quarrels are caused by not looking at the problem from the other person's point of view. need mutual understanding

The tragedies caused by private individuals using public resources for their own benefit and endless plundering need to be solved by a combination of government regulations and market mechanisms.

For example, human over-fishing and deforestation have caused public ecological damage

The collapse of an extremely prosperous market (real estate) was caused by the excessive growth of capital, the influx of a large number of speculators, and extremely active investment and finance.

Moderate control of economic bubbles is beneficial to the market, promotes competition, and prospers the economy. If there are too many bubbles, are over-inflated, and are seriously out of touch with actual needs, they will evolve into an economic bubble of false prosperity.

Market buying and selling decisions are not based on ideal assumptions. Irrational predictions and following the trend will lead to market collapse, which is common in the stock market and crude oil.

The results brought by one idea are worth the same work of 100 people who lack innovation.

Refers to when the economy is in recession, consumption of bulk commodities such as buying houses, cars, and investments decreases, and is replaced by cheap consumption such as entertainment and relaxation, shoes, clothing, lipstick, etc., which stimulates consumption.

Common vital industries in economic crises: cosmetics, film industry, animation and game industry

Once investors invest, they will multiply a series of returns, and then use the earned capital to reinvest the returns, and then reinvest and return again.

Someone has 5,000 yuan, spends 4,000 yuan to buy a computer, and invests 1,000 yuan. The computer company earned 4,000 yuan in revenue, spent 3,200 yuan to buy a motorcycle, and invested the remaining 800 yuan. The motorcycle owner earned 3,200 yuan, bought a set of fashion clothes with 2,600 yuan, and invested 600 yuan. This series of transactions triggered a series of exponential benefits.

Government investment has the effect of stimulating economic development

Build expressways and high-speed railways to stimulate local economic development, and build subways to stimulate urban and real estate development.

You can't have your cake and eat it too, you need to choose one of two or three. After weighing the pros and cons, choose the one with higher cost performance and give up the other. Sometimes the economic cost can be used to measure the conversion.

The abandoned party is a sunk cost, which is difficult to recover. The higher the opportunity cost, the more difficult the choice.

Following the public's mentality of blind obedience, lack of independent judgment and thinking, consumption and following the trend, the eyes of the public may not be sharp.

Develop the ability to think and judge independently, rather than following what others say

It is difficult to let go of what has been lost, and you will only lose more. For example, if you have been with an unsuitable person for many years and choose to get married because you are unwilling to sacrifice time and money, you will only lose more in your future life. Stop the loss in time.

Put down the irreparable sunk costs, don’t dwell on the losses, look forward, and rationally consider the costs that will be incurred in the future.

Don't judge the big from the small, and make rash comments based on the few phenomena you encounter. Because one stock investment fails, I think all stock investments will continue to lose money and fail; because one man is bad, I think all men are bad.

Don't lose big for small. It is very unwise to take a taxi to go to that store just to save a few bucks. Being complacent and forgetful, being unhappy brings sorrow, being peaceful and indifferent

The maximum price a person is willing to pay that exceeds the actual price. For example, if you are willing to spend 300 yuan to buy a pair of shoes, but the actual price is indeed 200 yuan, the 100 yuan difference is the consumer surplus.

Merchants discount defective products and make small profits but quick turnover to take advantage of consumer surplus, making consumers feel that they have made a profit even though they have spent more money than the actual price.

The pain of losing something is often greater than the joy of gaining it

We must rationally analyze risks, make correct choices, grasp the risk scale, and do not miss good opportunities.

80% of the value of a book is already explained in 20% of the pages, so there is no need to master the whole book, just focus on understanding the 20% essence of the book. Some students do not study diligently, but they do better than others in the exam. Even if this is the reason

You must master methods and efficiency, focus your time and energy on the key 20%, and don’t do general and useless work.

Use fair and standardized systems to restrict behavior and avoid unnecessary conflicts and problems.

A good system can guide enterprises, society and individuals to develop better

Absolute fairness does not exist

Don't get into fights over little injustices

A negative incentive method, often used in enterprises to introduce outstanding talents to create competition and a sense of urgency for other mediocre employees, thereby motivating everyone to work hard to speed up their pace and avoid being squeezed out.

It can also be applied to individuals themselves, that is, putting appropriate pressure on themselves. If you don’t work hard, you will lose a lot and fall behind others.

It is better to turn enemies into friends and achieve win-win cooperation than to lose everything and lose both sides.

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Motivate yourself to run faster. Appropriate pressure will better stimulate your potential. Give yourself a little pressure every day to make yourself move forward faster.

Stimulations from opponents and the outside world, troughs and difficulties further motivate myself to seek breakthroughs and prove my potential, work hard and forget about food and sleep.

Not seeking to be the first, but seeking to be unique and unable to be copied or competed with

Don’t be greedy and take multiple paths. Choose the path you are best at and have unique positioning and stick to it. Unique differentiation has the power to continue.

Plans don’t change as quickly as they should, so don’t be persistent and stick to a certain form.

See the situation clearly and adapt accordingly. For example, traditional enterprises need to catch up with the trend of self-media marketing and design product packaging designs that are in line with young consumer groups.

Eliminate in time, continue to innovate, be the first to eat crabs, do things that others have not done, and create your own path

Change your thinking, engage in more divergent thinking and reverse thinking, and activate innovation factors. Everything around you may be an object to stimulate innovative thinking.