eldest son

Girls who prefer boys over girls

Second son

That is, the prototype

Solve the inferiority complex

The manifestation of inferiority

definition

Performance

Problematic children, neurotics, drunks, criminals or sexual perverts all take appropriate action to achieve what they consider superior, and their conditions correspond to their goals.

Diseases are their means to achieve their goals

An effective way to heal them is to change their goals. Once the goals change, habits and attitudes will also change.

We cannot clearly understand the lifestyle of an individual in a favorable situation. Only when an individual is in a new environment, especially when encountering difficulties, will his lifestyle be clearly displayed.

Choosing a normal way of life as a basis for measurement can help us understand errors and individuality

The key to the problem we can cultivate social interests of such people through work is that they over-restrain themselves and are always looking for evidence of their fixed concepts.

Early memories are the most important way to understand lifestyle.

Lifestyle is built through the special goal of striving for superiority

Visual, auditory, oral, disease type

Early memories can help us predict what will happen in patients' later life, but it is not the reason. They just hint at the signs and directions of things.

Indulged

Hate everything

Parents should not be too close in front of their children, which will make their children feel that they are being ignored.

If there is no authority in a family, then real cooperation will be produced there

Parents cannot favor

Hostility and lack of cooperation in the family are the root of all development difficulties.

Modern society requires every member to receive a higher education than they can receive in their families.

Spelled children will show limitations of their social feelings during their first day of school life

The work of the school is to focus on children's problems and correct parents' mistakes

The class should be treated equally like a united family. Only in this way can children be truly interested in each other and enjoy the joy of cooperation. Many problematic children have completely changed their attitudes after enjoying cooperation and sharing.

IQ does not reflect children's development ability.

For all children, proving that they are no longer a child is the most important thing in adolescence.

Expression is the root of many behaviors of children during their youth.

If children are not ready to live an adult life, they will be extremely scared when various problems such as career, social, love and marriage are approaching.

All neurological diseases are an excuse to refuse life while maintaining a sense of personal superiority.

Human division of labor and human dedication are a key to people's employment problems

Mother is the first person to influence children's career interests

Achievements and gifts are created by oneself, not inheritance or so-called God-given gifts

In order to escape love and social problems, some people will use careers as excuses.

Psychological life is synthesized by two activities: "invasion" and "search for safety". Its ultimate goal is to protect organisms and enable them to complete their development safely.

To understand an individual's goals, we must first understand his actions and the meaning of his expression, and understand what the value of these actions and expressions are.

Actions within psychological life will only occur based on needs after appropriate goals are determined.

The goals that individual activities are directed by the impact of the environment on childhood. Everyone may form their own goals in the first few months of their lives. Some feelings can still inspire happy and uncomfortable reactions during the child's early years. Although its expression is extremely primitive, the first trace of the philosophy of life appears from this

Both children and adults have goals that want to be superior to others. When they encounter difficulties, they will choose to escape.

Effects of emotional state on activities

Division of labor allows humans to get tools for defense and attack. Only after learning to divide labor can humans know how to protect themselves.

The child's approach to the game, choices, and the importance he gives to the game suggests his views on the environment, his relationship with the environment, and his cooperation with his peers. It is obvious that he is hostile or friendly, and has the tendency to be a ruler

Games are social exercises that allow children to satisfy and fulfill their sense of society.

Children who avoid games are not very adaptable to life. This kind of child is willing to retreat from all games and often destroys the fun of other children. Pride, insufficient self-esteem and fear of not being able to play a role are the main causes of this behavior

Factors of lack of attention

Only interest can awaken attention

Negligence is the standard for measuring human social consciousness

Forgetful people usually do not publicly resist, but their forgetfulness also indicates that they lack interest in tasks.

We can find a person's behavior patterns in the subconscious mind, but we can only get in touch with some reflections in our conscious life.

There are all kinds of love in the world, and love itself cannot solve the problem. Only on the basis of appropriate equality can love take the right path and marriage succeed.

There is no place in marriage to accommodate a conqueror, which requires interest in others and the ability to think about others.

When a person faces a love problem, the characteristics revealed in his childhood will be emphasized and increased by the balance bike.

People with inferiority complexes often change careers, refuse to face problems, and never accomplish anything, and they treat love in the same way. There are other ways similar to extending engagement periods and changing partners.

Spoiled children will feel that they are not understood

Only those who adapt to society can solve the problems of love and marriage

The meaning of life varies from person to person

Three dimensions of reality

The meaning of life

Contribute to the group

It's the true meaning of life

Religion is also cultivating love and social interests

Increase interest in others

Individual psychology abandons determinism: experience is not the cause of success or failure, we are not defeated by experience, but we are only able to obtain things that determine our goals.

type

Original memory

I hope that the opponent will suffer bad luck, even lead to his neurological diseases, induce him to do things that hurt others, and in serious cases, it will also expose his tendency to commit crimes.

Spread rumors, slander, insult others, and raise yourself

Viciousness and revenge

Fighting and provocative

A fair exam can be painful

Such children need to remind them from time to time not to spend too much time on books, but to go out to exercise frequently, breathe fresh air, find friends to play, and care about things around them.

See others' success

Beyond

Others were praised

Like to play a leadership role, but not willing to follow the rules of the game

Lack of self-confidence, the expectations of others and their expectations of themselves often overwhelm them

In the interests of the public

Sloppy

Cowardly and shy

Weak

clumsy

Girls are unruly, stubborn and lazy

A child becomes a psychological reef when he gets sick

Avoid excessive pampering and exaggerated praise

Causes children to look at the outside world with a hostile perspective

It should inspire children's awareness of cooperation and innovation

Causes children to have psychological problems

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