MindMap Gallery The courage to be hated
The book adopts the classical method of Greek philosophy "Dialogue" and launches a simple but profound discussion around the issue of "how people can obtain happiness". The "philosopher" explains to the "youth" in a simple and easy-to-understand way how to improve interpersonal relationships, how to obtain happiness, and how to muster up the courage to face others when being disliked.
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The courage to be hated
Teleological
Teleological
Adler
Have a purpose first, then a reason
To find the reason to achieve the goal
It's more appropriate to call it an excuse.
Because I don’t want to go out, there are reasons such as bad weather, lack of suitable clothes and shoes, etc.
Our past experiences are not the reason for our success or failure in the present
Past experiences are not important, it is our interpretation of past experiences that is important
theory of causes
Freud
Past experiences subconsciously influence who we are now
The past cannot be changed, which means we cannot change it
despair of the world
falling into nihilism
don't want to change
Staying the same allows you to cope with everything based on experience, even if there are unexpected situations.
Change means facing the unknown. When various unknown situations arise, the unknown will feel uneasy.
Faced with the "uneasiness" caused by change and the "dissatisfaction" caused by change, you will definitely choose the latter.
interpersonal relationships
trouble
All the troubles in life come from interpersonal relationships
Lonely
you're not the only one
You will be lonely only if you are alienated from the people around you, society and the community
self-abasement
inferiority complex
Judgment from self-worth
Value is based on social meaning
If you think you are valuable, you will not feel inferior.
Can be a catalyst for effort and growth
You think you have low academic qualifications, so you have to work harder to promote your success.
inferiority complex
Inferiority complex used as an excuse
Thinking that they have low academic qualifications and will never succeed no matter how hard they try.
Having an inferiority complex but not having the courage to change
Conceit is also a kind of inferiority complex
I don’t have the courage to change, but I don’t want to fall into an inferiority complex and go the other way.
false sense of superiority
Arrogance is another form of inferiority complex
subtopic
boast about misfortune
appear special
Acute expression of inferiority complex to gain a sense of superiority
Weakness is very powerful and has privileges
compete
If there is competition in interpersonal relationships, there will be troubles
Develop an inferiority complex or superiority complex
pursuit of superiority
keep moving forward
Not to be superior to others
The pursuit of superiority is not accomplished by competing with others
The scary thing
Even if you have always been the winner, in the competition, in order to not lose, you must always maintain a winning state and cannot trust others.
Enormous pressure
When it comes to truth, no one will always pay attention to you
No need to defeat anyone
power struggle
Competition has winners and losers
Entering the stage of revenge
The relationship is difficult to reconcile
life lessons
Big three
Friendship topics
Work topic
love subject
related to interpersonal relationships
Friendship topics
Adlerian psychology is a psychology that pursues self-change, not a psychology that changes others.
Work topic
It is easiest to form a working relationship
We have a common goal and can cooperate even if we don't like each other.
The subject of love
love relationship
Will not feel inferior or show off superiority
family relations
Parent-child relationship
life lies
Use various excuses to avoid life's problems
Adlerian Psychology
It’s not what you’re given, it’s how you use what you’re given
core content
free
Stop looking for approval from others
Don’t live in the expectations of others
In order to gain the approval of others, you will live your life as others expect.
The price of freedom is being disliked
The lifestyle of trying to please everyone is an extremely unfree lifestyle.
Not afraid of being disliked, rather than deliberately annoying others
separation of subjects
interpersonal conflicts
Interfering in other people's life issues
One's own life issues are interfered with by others
Even parents have to put aside their children’s life issues
It is impossible for children to live exactly according to their parents’ expectations
Learning is a child’s subject. When children want to learn, parents provide support instead of forcing children to learn.
Interfering in or taking on other people's life issues will make your own life heavy and painful
Separating topics is not self-centered, interfering in other people's topics is
desire for recognition
It means loyalty to the people around you, but you can't be loyal to everyone around you, the lie will be exposed
in order to be recognized
Live in the expectations of others
sense of community
The state of seeing others as partners and finding one's own place among them
The trump card of interpersonal relationships is in your own hands
Changing yourself is your own task, and how the other party reacts is the other party's task
It is wrong to manipulate others by changing yourself
The desire for approval is what binds relationships
interpersonal relationships
Entrance
separation of subjects
ultimate
sense of community
Transform obsession with yourself into concern for others
two relationships
horizontal relationship
encourage
Thanks
Gratitude shows that you have contributed to others
equal relationship
vertical relationship
Criticism/Praise
an evaluation
superior-subordinate, subordinate relationship
Judgment of people with low ability
Children who cook a meal will be praised by their parents, but adults think it is normal to cook a meal.
put one's oar in
Lead the other person in the direction you want
Evaluative language is a vertical relationship
An equal relationship can be established anywhere
One can only adopt one relationship
Once established, it is the same relationship in all situations
courage
When you feel valuable, you will feel courageous
Facing life issues head on
Only when I realize that I am useful to the community will I feel valuable
Give relationships to others
Build horizontal relationships
Use incentives
Make you feel useful to others
Living in the moment
Too much self-awareness will constrain oneself
Self-obsession turns to concern for others
Accept yourself
Admit what you can't do and work hard towards what you can do
trust in others
Treat those around you as partners rather than enemies
Contributions from others
focus on the present
Focus on "the here and now"
Focusing on the past and future is just looking for immunity for yourself
The greatest misfortune in life is not liking yourself
The meaning of life needs to be given by oneself
No one can help you give it
There is no universal meaning of life
biggest lie
Worry about the past and focus on the future
Don’t live in the “here and now”