Difficulty distinguishing oneself from the outside world

What you see is what you get: the world is as you see it

You are the center of the universe, and all your needs will be automatically met

Through daily care, children begin to develop attachment to their parents

Only recognize mother for breastfeeding and cuddling, reject other people’s feeding and cuddling

Primitive thinking prevents children from imagining that their mother will appear in a place they cannot see.

For the child, not seeing the mother = the mother disappears

Children develop separation anxiety due to fear of mother disappearing

【1】Parents can go to work normally and find a stable substitute caregiver.

【2】Go home regularly, especially at night

I used to change diapers calmly, but now I move around a lot.

I'm so sleepy that I can't keep my eyes open, but refuse to go to sleep

The more dangerous behavior is prevented by adults, the more important it is to do it

Children begin to learn to walk, leaving the arms of adults to explore the world

For the child, this is the beginning of independence, and he needs to complete everything by himself

Only by mastering the skills of walking independently can anxiety be completely overcome

Always confronting adults and desperately resisting their parents’ efforts to guide them into a civilized society

Children are trying to grow into independent people and establish a permanent connection between themselves and the world.

Parents are the rule makers

Refusing to use the flush toilet

The size and sound of the toilet frightened the child, and he worried that he would be flushed away with the water

Prepare a children’s toilet for your child

Don’t be too grand or too urgent, be patient

Help children delay gratification through expression

Increase channels for emotional release

Suggestion: Help children learn more abstract words, such as "I feel wronged" and "I want to cry"

Although children speak the same language as adults, their understanding of the world behind them is different.

Case: Children think "fly away" means "fly" and "birds fly" means "fly".

The child begins to use the word "I", indicating that he has developed an independent personality consciousness

Children begin to pay attention to their own gender and sexual organs

“Where do I come from?”: How many children ask, and how many parents answer

Take advantage of teachable moments: seize the moment when children show curiosity about sex and provide sex education to them

Strengthening gender identity: Fathers set an example for boys, mothers a role model for girls

Children begin to think rationally and figure out the causes and consequences of things

Expressing love and approval inspires children to repeat good behaviors and form habits

The child’s sense of guilt for doing something wrong is a good opportunity to stimulate conscience

Do not use corporal punishment to prevent children from developing a "even" mentality