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About family education-Why do children always hit others? Mind map to help you understand why your child hits someone How to communicate with children What you can do to avoid negative reinforcement.
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Why do children always hit others?
The reason why children always hit others
physiological instinct
Peed. Need to change diaper or clothes.
Thirsty or too hungry and want to drink milk or eat something
Too cold or too hot Need to dress or undress
It hurts. I fell or was beaten by my parents.
catharsis
anxiety
Separation anxiety: not wanting to be separated from parents, fear of going to kindergarten alone
I can’t solve the difficulties I encounter and I can’t write my homework.
sad
Toys were stolen
Bullied by classmates
criticized by parents
misunderstood
express dissatisfaction
Watching TV and playing with mobile phones are banned
Forced to share in protest
ignored
seek comfort
Parents are too strict
My mother didn’t help myself in time when I fell down
seeking attention
Parents are busy with work and neglect to accompany them
Achieve their goals
Not expressive enough, gets angry when anxious, only cries
Threatening parents to meet demands
If you don’t buy a toy, you’ll keep crying.
I kept crying when I refused to go to the amusement park.
Solution
Communication method one
Never say that
Stop, don’t hit anyone (X)
Result: The child is frightened by the parents’ scolding or simply ignores it
It would be better to say this
If you want to say hello to the children, right? You can wave first (✓)
Result: Children learn to express their intentions
Communication method two
Never say that
How many times have I told you that hitting someone is wrong, please apologize!
Result: The child was very scared and cried 😭
It would be better to say this
What you did just now was wrong and it will hurt others. Mom, would you like to apologize with you?
Result: The child knew that his behavior was wrong, and took the initiative to apologize to his mother. At the same time, he felt supported by his mother and was no longer afraid😨
Wheat sprouts give you some suggestions
Stop in time
Grab the child's hand in time, squat down, and tell him calmly and firmly, "Hitting is an incorrect way to express yourself. Can you tell me what happened?" It's important to listen first and educate later!
Reject "fighting violence with violence"
Mom and dad are not allowed to hit anyone.
Positive guidance
Recommended picture book "Little hands are not for hitting people"
Cold treatment
If the child is trying to attract attention, ignore him on purpose. When he behaves well, encourage and praise him in time!
Learn to apologize
Let the child learn to apologize, instead of helping him apologize, you can accompany the child to apologize together.
no label
Never say "Why do you always hit people?"
Never say, "This kid is really annoying when he hits people."