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MindMap Gallery How to be chosen for the long term in a relationship

How to be chosen for the long term in a relationship

This is an article about "How to be chosen for the long term in a relationship?" 》Mind map, the main contents include: the real selection depends on your relationship, values, miscellaneous, and the skills of being selected.

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How to be chosen for the long term in a relationship

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"How to be chosen in a relationship?" 》

1. Tips for being chosen

Choose the right person

Teacher An Qing said online that 60% of the consultees had problems with the partner they chose at that time.

Only "be good to him/her"

low cost

Does what the other party invests in you support you in the long run?

You also need to choose the right person during the love stage

In the trough period just after a breakup, I need a life-saving straw to transition.

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Just broke up

I’ve been talking to you about my ex since I just met you.

This is not a sign of trust in you

Just looking for someone to vent my feelings to

People who come out don’t like to look back on the past

This is not a problem with this person, but a problem with his current state.

Some candidates just want short-term selection and don’t want long-term selection.

Avoidant attachment, unable to establish long-term relationships

Can only seek emotional satisfaction in the moment

Unable to afford

Avoid talking about xx

Meet parents

live together

Such people should grow themselves first

married male

I am temporarily seconded to this city because of my job.

People with good looks are easily attracted to the other person’s first appearance

The other party actually has a lot of fish

Others may not respond positively, but you just respond positively

Treat you as if you are away from me

Can't tell whether the other person likes you

Establish a long-term mindset (Ask for the best)

Let go of perfectionism

Take it from it, get it from it Depend on it, get below it

Do you fit the person’s profile of a partner?

If you don't meet the requirements and seek too much, you won't be selected for a long term.

There will be problems for women if they reach too high

Easily betrayed after marriage

Men will also have problems if they reach too high and they will feel aggrieved.

Create your own "mate selection portrait"

Meaning: your expectations for your partner

Put in order

If the other party meets two of the first three points, it will be good.

"I'm all about feelings and don't set these standards."

People who only talk about feelings need a strong heart

This kind of person also has his own standards, but he can't describe them.

Show him two photos of the opposite sex and ask him or her which one you have more feelings for. In fact, you will also find that there are standards.

It’s hard to change your outlook on life, but it’s easy to change your appearance.

The portrait of choosing a mate also needs to change

The mate selection market has changed. If you persist, your chances of being chosen will decrease.

example

In the past, material things of the other party were valued, but after career success, material things only ranked fifth.

If you like talented people, don’t expect them to have financial value

This is often the case

High-quality men and women are not in circulation, especially men

inspection period (1 ~ 3 months)

Changze will generally have physical contact only after having a relatively comprehensive understanding and establishing a basic sense of security and trust.

Not more than three months

If the relationship lasts for more than three months, the other person will often feel that you have not chosen him.

About temptation

Don't do it when you're not together

It can only explain you

no confidence

Mature people will not be tempted

Will only be sincere

If you don't accept that he will only be sincere, then I wish you happiness

Family of origin is very important, be sure to ask questions clearly

There is no need to deliberately investigate

Just chat and check your attitude.

See if he is dating many people at the same time

example

Girls don’t let you send them home every time

Even if a boy drives

Even if you just want to order some brown sugar ginger tea for takeout

Dating content and location can be seen

On the first date, it’s best to match the other person’s personality traits

example

drink

Just met

Decide first whether it is worth continuing to learn more about

Have a meal

Already passed the point of view

Can have an in-depth understanding

See a movie

Go further

This is true for some people, but it depends on the individual and cannot be generalized.

The first time I asked you to go to Qingba, maybe it’s just because he likes to go to Qingba.

Confess the relationship in person

This is very important for "being selected"

Usually for boys

The promise a boy makes to a girl

Girls can tell boys directly

"I think we are a bit ambiguous. Have you ever thought about becoming boyfriend and girlfriend with me?"

If the other party doesn’t answer directly, you may have been short-selected.

Let go of the PUA routine

People who play tricks are generally

Conditions are very average

not confident enough

It is often easy to be short-selected by girls

example

Chat with girls every day

Talking to girls makes it a habit to talk to him

Then suddenly disappears

tea talk tea talk

"Your husband is so happy, I wish I were your husband"

Pig killing plate

Emotional counterattack

"Why are you checking my phone? You don't trust me so much?"

blow

Suppressing you is to make you invest more

Long-term selection requires internal motivation

One moment and five no

If you want to be chosen for a long time, you must provide emotional value

include

will provide emotional value

girl

Make boys feel that their efforts are not taken for granted

boys

Let the other person not feel that you are

Silly mouth

stuffy

Express high-quality gratitude in small things

example

Girls cook for boys

Boys buy gifts for girls

Example: What should I do if a girl doesn’t like a gift given by a boy?

Review

Give emotional value on the spot and praise the other person's behavior

(Show him photos of other flowers later) "Do you think this flower looks good? I like this style very much."

include

language

nonverbal

Embrace

kiss

Don't be mean-mouthed

Destroy the opponent's efforts

Boys make inappropriate jokes to girls

"These pants of yours really show off your belly."

Don't tempt

"I only pour water for my future wife"

The highest temptation is sincerity

No suppression

No transformation

No brainwashing

Suspecting that the contact person has been in contact with other people, and then slandering other people

As long as you're not married, it's fair competition for everyone

Girls lower PU index (Create a long-term profile)

PU index Paternity Uncertainty Parent-child uncertainty

The higher the number, the lower the sense of security for boys.

High PU performance

External PU index

scantily clad

Too many members of the opposite sex

Intrinsic PU Index

Emotional instability, making

Most girls who are short-selected or broken up with are because of this.

prone to extreme behavior

Reasons related to PU

If you go out because of your emotions, it will increase the risk of cheating.

If you break up at any time because of emotions, it will make boys feel insecure.

majority

Too strong

Comparing boys with other boys when they have an argument

Do you really want to find someone else?

Love to play vixen

Girls are too materialistic and economical in front of boys.

Only girls need it, boys don’t

Because boys don’t have PU

It is difficult for girls with high PU to marry into rich families

How to reduce PU

Talk less to other members of the opposite sex

Not revealingly dressed

Don’t tell boys how many suitors you have

High PU Careers

internet celebrity

As long as someone outbids me, I will be kicked out at any time.

saleswoman

Medical beauty

Decide

Dressing style

people in contact

Internet celebrity is a profession with high PU

boys

passable appearance

Improve economic capabilities

Increase emotional value

2. The real choice depends on your relationship and values.

3. miscellaneous

Blind date and online dating market

More likely to be short-selected

It is impossible for the other party to understand your meaning at once

Short choices are sometimes "mutual"

Example: money

Girls see handsome guys and get together

The girl felt that the handsome guy was not spending money for her, so she broke up with him

Boys don’t understand and feel like they’re being wronged

When girls see boys who really don’t look back, they feel like they are really being scummed.

Both felt they had been short-chosen

People who choose short-term are generally very particular about efficiency.

"Anchor of Heart"

through physical contact beyond developmental stages

Test how the other person feels about you

Advance relationships quickly

The counselor will reason out bad news and will not immediately hit the counselor

Just like a doctor would not directly tell a patient, "You only have three months to live."