a) Unconditional love. Example: chose an activity they like and show them the way it is to be done with a coach or teacher. b) Empathy Example: when your child makes a mistake or poor choice, help them feel supported and learn the correction. Like leaving your bike out and it got stolen. I can see your disappoint what do you think might help next time. c) Balancing Example: I expect you to always do your best but I love you no matter what.

a) Build positive relationships Example: use words like I noticed that you like to draw. b) Leading by example Exapmle: Showing children the expected behavior c) Praise the behavior we expect Example:Thank you for waiting til we were done talking

a) Use few words without raising your voice Examle: I listen to people who do not yell at me. b) reacting slowly and come up with a plan . Example: I will be glad to discuss this with you as soon as the arguing stops. c) follow through- being consistant with the consequences Example: Feel free to go play once your homework is completed.