i often punish my body by binge watching and being care less towards my body and all i knew i m wrong but that hope for doind is dead how to rebuild that
1. Understand the Root Cause
Ask yourself:
What am I avoiding when I binge-watch?
Do I feel unworthy of self-care?
Is there a deeper pain I’m numbing?
Do I fear change or responsibility?
do what i appriciate not others its me vs me
I HAVE NIGHTS THAT REMINDS ME THAT IM WORTHY
BUT AS SHIV JI DIDNT GIVE THE POWERS TO KARTIKAYA SON I ALSO HAVE TO PROOF MY SHIVA AS I AM WORTHY
2. Reframe Your Perspective
Instead of thinking, “I’ve lost the will to take care of myself,” shift to:
“I’m capable of rebuilding a better relationship with myself.”
“I don’t have to be perfect. I just need to start.”
“My body deserves my care, and I want to feel strong again.”
Right now, self-care might feel like a chore because you associate it with discipline instead of self-respect. Start viewing it as an act of self-kindness rather than something you should do.
DONT PROOF CHACHU
✅Own Your Presence – Walk, talk, and act like you already know your worth. No need for approval.
✅ Take Action, Not Just Talk – Keep promises, be consistent, and let results speak for themselves.
✅ Level Up Constantly – Improve skills, fitness, and mindset. People respect growth.
✅ Set Boundaries – Say no, demand respect, and walk away from toxicity.
✅ Carry Yourself with Confidence – Dress well, speak clearly, and own your space.
✅ Add Value to Others – Be helpful, listen, and contribute without seeking validation.
✅ Believe in Yourself First – Your worth isn’t up for debate. Decide it, live it.
4. Build a Positive Reward System
Instead of punishing yourself with guilt, set up small rewards for self-care:
After 30 minutes of movement, enjoy a favorite snack guilt-free.
After finishing work early, allow yourself an episode of a show but stop there.
After drinking enough water, play a song you love.
5. Connect with Your Future Self
Imagine yourself six months from now:
How do you want to feel?
What kind of person do you want to become?
What would your future self thank you for?
Whenever you feel like giving up, remind yourself that every action today shapes that version of you.
6. Surround Yourself with Positivity
Follow people who inspire healthy habits.
Join a group that values personal growth.
Read/watch things that reinforce self-discipline and self-love.
7. Allow Grace, Not Guilt
If you slip up, don’t drown in self-criticism. Just restart. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s progress.
Your hope isn’t dead; it’s just buried under self-neglect. Start digging it out, one small action at a time. You deserve to take care of yourself. ❤️
THEIR ARE SOME REMINDERS THAT REMINDS ME THE GUILT THAT YOU CANT DO FOR YOUR FATHER FOR MOTHER YOU DIDNT DO FOR YOUR BROTHER FOR YOU
BUT BELEVE ME THEY ARE DISTRACTIONS
IF YOU REALLY FELT JUST DO IT
YOUR GUILT IS POSSIBLY SOLVED
GUILT IS MISCONCEPTION DONT GIVE THEM ATTENTION