Principle 1: Don’t criticize, blame or complain

Principle 2 Be honest and sincerely appreciate others

Principle 3: Arouse the other person’s eager needs

Principle 1: Be genuinely interested in others

Principle 2 Smile

Principle 3: Remember other people’s names. To a person, names are the sweetest and most critical words.

Principle 4: Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves

Principle 5 Discuss the other person’s interests and interests

Principle 6: Sincerely make the other person feel his or her own importance

Start with compliments and genuine appreciation

Indirectly let the other party notice your mistakes

Before you start criticizing others, do some self-reflection

Ask rather than order

Give others a chance to save face

Praise the smallest opportunity, "Give praise sincerely, without hesitation"

Use your good reputation to inspire others

To encourage. Make difficulties appear easier to overcome

Make people happy to accept your suggestions

Principle 1 The best way to win an argument is to

Principle 2: Respect other people’s opinions and never say “you are wrong”

Principle 3 If you are wrong, admit it quickly and decisively

Principle 4: Start friendly

Principle 5: Let the other person answer “yes”

Principle 6 Let others do the talking whenever possible

Principle 7: Make him or her feel that the idea is his or her own.

Principle 8: Sincerely try to see the situation from the other person’s perspective

Principle 9 Understand and empathize with the wishes and ideas of others

Don't nag

Don't try to outdo and change your partner

don't blame

give sincere appreciation

Start small

Learn to respect

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