MindMap Gallery The Art of Love
Love is a practical art that needs to be learned. It is not only a creative and proactive giving behavior, but also the key to breaking through the dilemma of loneliness. Starting from Fromm's analysis of the essence of love, the art of love covers the four important elements of mature love, the dialectical relationship between self-love and his love, and the training path to overcome narcissistic cognition. However, modern society faces difficulties such as capitalist alienation of love and false forms of intimate relationships. To rebuild the social conditions of healthy love, we need to cultivate productive personality, establish an active existence model, and fight the erosion of consumerism. The practical methodological system of love includes the construction of deep listening ability, the cultivation of objectivity thinking, and the dual dimensions of courage and rational belief.
Edited at 2025-03-09 01:36:37Rumi: 10 dimensions of spiritual awakening. When you stop looking for yourself, you will find the entire universe because what you are looking for is also looking for you. Anything you do persevere every day can open a door to the depths of your spirit. In silence, I slipped into the secret realm, and I enjoyed everything to observe the magic around me, and didn't make any noise. Why do you like to crawl when you are born with wings? The soul has its own ears and can hear things that the mind cannot understand. Seek inward for the answer to everything, everything in the universe is in you. Lovers do not end up meeting somewhere, and there is no parting in this world. A wound is where light enters your heart.
Chronic heart failure is not just a problem of the speed of heart rate! It is caused by the decrease in myocardial contraction and diastolic function, which leads to insufficient cardiac output, which in turn causes congestion in the pulmonary circulation and congestion in the systemic circulation. From causes, inducement to compensation mechanisms, the pathophysiological processes of heart failure are complex and diverse. By controlling edema, reducing the heart's front and afterload, improving cardiac comfort function, and preventing and treating basic causes, we can effectively respond to this challenge. Only by understanding the mechanisms and clinical manifestations of heart failure and mastering prevention and treatment strategies can we better protect heart health.
Ischemia-reperfusion injury is a phenomenon that cellular function and metabolic disorders and structural damage will worsen after organs or tissues restore blood supply. Its main mechanisms include increased free radical generation, calcium overload, and the role of microvascular and leukocytes. The heart and brain are common damaged organs, manifested as changes in myocardial metabolism and ultrastructural changes, decreased cardiac function, etc. Prevention and control measures include removing free radicals, reducing calcium overload, improving metabolism and controlling reperfusion conditions, such as low sodium, low temperature, low pressure, etc. Understanding these mechanisms can help develop effective treatment options and alleviate ischemic injury.
Rumi: 10 dimensions of spiritual awakening. When you stop looking for yourself, you will find the entire universe because what you are looking for is also looking for you. Anything you do persevere every day can open a door to the depths of your spirit. In silence, I slipped into the secret realm, and I enjoyed everything to observe the magic around me, and didn't make any noise. Why do you like to crawl when you are born with wings? The soul has its own ears and can hear things that the mind cannot understand. Seek inward for the answer to everything, everything in the universe is in you. Lovers do not end up meeting somewhere, and there is no parting in this world. A wound is where light enters your heart.
Chronic heart failure is not just a problem of the speed of heart rate! It is caused by the decrease in myocardial contraction and diastolic function, which leads to insufficient cardiac output, which in turn causes congestion in the pulmonary circulation and congestion in the systemic circulation. From causes, inducement to compensation mechanisms, the pathophysiological processes of heart failure are complex and diverse. By controlling edema, reducing the heart's front and afterload, improving cardiac comfort function, and preventing and treating basic causes, we can effectively respond to this challenge. Only by understanding the mechanisms and clinical manifestations of heart failure and mastering prevention and treatment strategies can we better protect heart health.
Ischemia-reperfusion injury is a phenomenon that cellular function and metabolic disorders and structural damage will worsen after organs or tissues restore blood supply. Its main mechanisms include increased free radical generation, calcium overload, and the role of microvascular and leukocytes. The heart and brain are common damaged organs, manifested as changes in myocardial metabolism and ultrastructural changes, decreased cardiac function, etc. Prevention and control measures include removing free radicals, reducing calcium overload, improving metabolism and controlling reperfusion conditions, such as low sodium, low temperature, low pressure, etc. Understanding these mechanisms can help develop effective treatment options and alleviate ischemic injury.
The Art of Love
Fromm's analysis of the essence of love
Love is a practical art that needs to be learned
Break the misunderstanding that "love is accidental emotion"
Master the theoretical system of love and the attitude of continuous practice
The core competency requirements for practicing love
Self-discipline: Establishing a stable inner order
Focus: Get rid of fragmented life interference
Patience: Reject the temptation of instant gratification
Faith: Lasting trust in oneself and others
Love is a creative act of giving
Give vitality rather than material exchange
Share happiness: the transmission of emotional resonance
Transmit understanding: empathy beyond prejudice
Output knowledge: mutual help for spiritual growth
Inspire interest: the connection of vitality
Theoretical system construction of love
The fundamental loneliness dilemma of human existence
Physiological separation: the inevitability of individualization
Social alienation: the suppression of mechanized survival
Four typical ways to break through loneliness
Creative Activities: Self-Realization in Art/Labor
Indulgence carnival: paralysis of short-term sensory stimulation
Herd convergence: Losing the belonging of independent thinking
Mature love: Maintaining independent symbiotic connections
Analysis of the four important elements of mature love
Care: Take the initiative to pay attention to the other person's willingness to grow
Emotional engagement rather than observing posture
Respond positively rather than passively
Responsibility: Voluntarily assume the integrity of the relationship
Non-compulsory moral choices
Reject sacrificial self-movement
Respect: The ability to accept the other party's independence
Avoid control and materialization tendencies
Support differentiated development paths
Understand: Deep cognition that penetrates appearances
Dynamic observation rather than static definition
Face the reality rather than fantasy projection
Types and characteristics of love
Brotherly Love (universal love for mankind)
Equality principle: care without hierarchy
Overcoming self-centeredness: The leap from self-interest to symbiosis
Practice Path: Establishing a sense of responsibility to strangers
The duality of mother's love
Positive side of unconditional acceptance
Absolute protection of infancy
Mental weaning support during separation period
Potential Negative: Obstacles independent possessiveness
Emotional kidnapping in the name of love
Refusing to recognize the subjectivity of children
Exclusiveness and misunderstanding of sex
The essence of exclusivity: the integration of complete personality
Symbolism of physical intimacy
The spiritual contract of emotional loyalty
Common cognitive distortions
Mistake of passion projection as eternal
Use possessiveness to replace trust
The dialectical relationship between self-love and his love
The nature of healthy self-love
The courage to accept your own limitations
Ability to maintain mental integrity
The symbiosis with his love
The lack of self-love leads to control
His love for lack of self-denial
The evolutionary logic of religious love
Paternal Religion: Projection of Authoritative Worship
Motherhood religion: Unconditional inclusive belief
Religion of Reason: The Intrinsic Unity of Man and Divine
Modern alienation: Consumerism belief substitution
Blind worship of material idols
Self-deception of utilitarian prayer
The dilemma of love in modern society
Capitalism's alienation of love
Market-oriented personality: treating emotions as commodities
Value exchange calculation in mate selection
Cost-benefit analysis of relationship maintenance
Production assembly line thinking: modeled intimacy
The rigidity of the standardized dating process
Fragmented consumption of emotional experience
False intimate relationship form
Symbiotic dependence type: pathological swallowing each other
Game of Thrones of Sadness and Masochism
The complete collapse of self-boundary boundaries
Idol worship type: idealized projection
Cognitive distortion of deifying a partner
Rejection and fear of real interaction
Rebuilding the social conditions of healthy love
The direction of cultivating productive personality
Rebuilding independent judgment ability
Cultivating the habit of creative labor
The need for change in social structure
Economic model beyond capital logic
Restructuring of community mutual aid network
Love's practical methodological system
Training paths to overcome narcissistic cognition
Cultivation of objective thinking
Distinguish between facts and subjective assumptions
Give up the illusion of omnipotence control
Building deep listening capabilities
Concentration of suspending judgment
Holographic interpretation of body language
Faith as the spiritual foundation of love
The essential characteristics of rational belief
Firmness based on experience in existence
Blind obedience against dogmatism
The dual dimension of courage
To endure anxiety of uncertainty
Decision to uphold inner truth
Creative personality shaping strategies
Establishment of active existence mode
Transition from possessive to experience
Continuous self-renewal awareness
Fight against the erosion of consumerism
Reject emotional fast food tendency
Time investment in deep relationships