A person's advantages are nothing more than four things: do what you are talented at, completely believe in yourself, find your specialty, and turn it into your nirvana.
Because we are focused, we are professional
To know everything is to know nothing. Everything is accessible, everything is loose
Practice a move into a unique move
Practice a move into a unique move
Find this thing and devote all your time, attention, mind and energy to it
You know how to practice special moves
Substitution is the best change, use the second reaction to replace the first reaction
Behind the first reaction is your limiting thinking
Thoughts shape your language, and language in turn affects your thinking
confirmation bias
You tend to believe in existing opinions or stereotypes in your mind
Will automatically look for evidence for it and cannot accept contrary opinions and evidence
Thinking is the realm, vision is the world
The first reaction is instinct, the second reaction is talent
Your first reaction controls your life
Fake it until you make it.(Fake it until you make it.)
People's preconceived judgments, no matter whether they are correct or not, will affect people's behavior to a greater or lesser extent, so that in the end this judgment will finally be realized.
How the world works
Where your attention is, there your results will be.
What is your angle, what will you see?
What you believe will become
Because it is impermanent, it is wonderful; because it is fruitless, it is expected; because it is selfless, it is free; because it is nothing, it is
There is no one else in this world, it is you who chooses your memories and life
Believe, make everything possible
Negativity is an instinct, optimism is a choice. Confidence is always a selective belief
The so-called going with the flow is to be your true self, do what you are talented in, and then become the only one
Identify childhood abilities/talents
Your childhood abilities determine your superpowers and your core competitiveness.
three questions
When you were a child (especially before the age of 7)
Is there anything you can learn instantly?
When you were a child (especially before the age of 7)
Is there anything that makes you happy once you do it?
When you were a child (especially before the age of 7)
Is there anything that can be achieved as soon as you do it?
Start describing these things in detail. Behind each description, there is at least one ability.
Just describe, don't define
Better to be different than best
You don't have to worry about losing to a million kinds of people on a million things
You only need to care about which one thing you can win over the whole world
Ordinary people's superpowers
All the things you have tried your best and failed to achieve, there is almost only one reason: it is not your talent.
"I am born with talent"
two hints
Before development, at the beginning of growth, it is extremely important to figure out what kind of material you are born with.
If you have advantages, you must also have shortcomings; if you have strong points, you must also have shortcomings
You need to know your own talents and your own limits.
If you go in the wrong direction, your efforts will be in vain.
First find a “own” system
"own" system
Any circle is an important basis for judgment.
think
Among the 4 circles, which part of you is stronger?
Among the 4 circles, which part of yourself is weaker?
How can I pay more attention to the weaker parts? How to enhance training
Accept who you were in the past and like who you are now
How do ordinary people find their superpowers?
What do you like most about yourself now?
Those who are not strong in ambition are not wise enough.
When change doesn’t happen, stay diligent and make quantitative changes to achieve qualitative changes.
Every effort you make now is accumulating luck for the future
If you want to "live your own way", you must first understand your own system
diligent
significance
It is the greatest respect for one’s own life. Time management is life management.
Final goal
Maximize your possibilities and make chance close to certainty
useful premise
clear goals
Be specific, detailed, and have deadlines
in good condition
Ensure adequate sleep, 6-8 hours
Meditate and breathe deeply, 15-30 minutes
Positive self-suggestion: I am the best
Long-term: clear goals and then work hard; short-term: adjust your status and work hard again
The best way to solve a problem is to prevent it from happening
Efforts that fail to achieve the essence are in vain
Understand the essence first, then the methods and techniques, and finally the operation steps
Only when diligence happens continuously can it become an advantage
Essentially three levels of effort
internal laws
Pay attention to the laws of things themselves
Essence is the source of all phenomena, and law is a manifestation of essence
elemental thinking
Simplify complex problems, break down simple problems into elements, and extract 1-4 key points.
Build a basic thinking framework to give your thinking a starting point
Doing those parts well is equivalent to doing the whole thing well.
Analyze, dismantle and summarize the elements of something
first principles
The essence and foundation of all disciplines
In every system, there is a most basic proposition
It cannot be violated or deleted
biology
Natural selection, survival of the fittest
Sublime things to the most fundamental truth and reason from the core
Phenomenon may confuse you, only essence can guide you
In the right direction, use your efforts to maximize your talents.
If you only focus on the appearance of the game and don't care about the essence of the game, you will never become a master and have no chance to become a winner.
3 ways to lose in poker
You have a good hand, it’s too early to give up
You have a bad hand, it’s too late to give up
Don’t know the rules of the game and play cards randomly
When to fight
when to give up
Overall understanding of the rules of the game
Talent means working hard and using it in the right direction
Is excellence a matter of talent or deliberate practice?
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