MindMap Gallery Sometimes I'm Really Desperate 2.1
Mind map of "Sometimes I Really Desperate" 2.1, indeed, there will be dissatisfaction again and again in life. But as long as you don’t feel powerless and don’t give up, you might gain hope.
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"Sometimes I'm Really Desperate"
The strongest psychological state
There is something inherently wrong with expecting the system to adapt to you. In other words, don’t cater to the system.
No matter how difficult it is right now, constantly think about "Is it okay to live in this way?" "Is it okay to work in this way?" to break the rules of life and take back your own life.
Then choose the job you are willing to do and don't waste your life.
Even if you don't achieve worldly success in the end, you won't live an unhappy life.
Don't think that becoming stronger is the strongest mental state
Even if you get laid off, fall ill, or go bankrupt, you have nothing to lose.
Your own value has nothing to do with changes in the external environment
Your own existence is the value and meaning of living. Everything you do except living is addition.
being(existence)>doing(behavior)
Taking retreat as a way to advance will make you a strong person
Start slowly with what you can do
Don't think about changing the environment in one go. To understand what you should do now, you must make up your mind on this basis.
The point is, after making up your mind, don’t let your courage be frustrated in the face of difficulties
Give it a try and don't think about whether it's easy or not. If you do nothing, nothing will change. There is no change and there is no talk of ease.
How to Deal with Leaders Who Harass Your Authority
Although it was me who was scolded, it was not directed at me
Attacking employees' personality stems from their own inferiority complex and improves their own value through belittling
Worrying about being criticized, observing the leader’s face, etc., and still being restrained by the leader, you are still relying on the leader
"Yes" is not because "the leader said it", but because "it is right", nothing more.
Leaders: There is no need to criticize employees who have made mistakes. Just talk about why things were messed up and how to avoid repeating the same failure in the future. Employees: Understand that being scolded is not personal; find a sense of contribution at the existential level, and then provide support at the behavioral level. Work and contribute.
anger
There is a problem with getting angry emotionally. Obviously, you just need to refute the other party in a clear and logical manner. There is no need to be emotional.
If the other person continues to feel anger toward that person even when they are not present, then it is not anger, it is hatred.
It may be anger at first, but gradually it forms an image of having negative feelings. When you look at this person again, you can only find factors that help strengthen the negative image.
If the leader attacks your personality and makes you feel very annoying, you should not become someone you hate and attack the leader's personality.
A did something wrong
Possibility 1: B just needs to refute the other party in a clear and logical manner, there is no need to be emotional.
Possibility 2: B attacks A’s personality
Possibility 3: A also attacks B’s personality (Extreme Edition)
A also did something he didn’t approve of
A does not objectively admit and correct his work mistakes, and his emotional focus is on B
Slowly, A confuses anger and hatred, and only develops hatred towards B.
Workplace life and workplace interpersonal relationships may feel chaotic due to focusing on B.
A leaves or B leaves
A may permanently hate B
A Or it may cause hatred along with the job at that time
A or CDE, who had a good relationship with B at the time, may develop hatred together.
Possibility 4: A does not attack B’s personality, A accepts the part he did wrong, and A refutes B’s attack on personality in a clear and non-emotional manner (extreme version)
A can objectively correct his own mistakes and improve his abilities
A’s behavior fundamentally denies something he does not approve of
A may see a different side of B in the future that makes people angry
postscript
Indeed, there will be dissatisfaction again and again in life. But as long as you don’t feel powerless and don’t give up, you might gain hope.
To deal with the present day is to waste the joy of living in vain. To do this, we must live today only for today.
Today is by no means a rehearsal or preparation stage to achieve a certain goal, but a formal performance. If you conscientiously do what you can do today, you may be able to go very far. However, the purpose of life is not to go far, but to enjoy the journey.
Is it because you can’t foresee the future that life is exciting?